tornwings47 Posted January 30, 2005 Share Posted January 30, 2005 hello, latley ive been having problums in a long distance relationship...me and a girl were freinds in the 5th grade..then we both moved apart to 2 diffrent states..but stayed in touch for the last...5 years(in the 5th grade we were just freinds...but as we got older even tho we dident see each other we got to know each other alot and fell in love)...i got really bad into drugs and self harm ect....and she got me out of it and she really became everything to me..we feel in love with each other..even thought we havent communicated in person since the 5th grade we are really into each other...im still a teenager...a junior in high school same as her. we talk almost every night...we went out..but it dident work so then we broke up...but we stayed single and attached...i was asked out by alot of goodlooking/nice girls..but turned them down because of my feelings for her...now she has a boyfreind..and the jelousy is..unbelivably bad..she is everything to me..but i want her to be happy....i dont know what to do...if anyone could give me some advice it would be greatley appreciated (if you need to know ne thing else ill also post that info) Link to post Share on other sites
Pocky Posted February 3, 2005 Share Posted February 3, 2005 Is she aware of your feelings for her? Link to post Share on other sites
Author tornwings47 Posted February 4, 2005 Author Share Posted February 4, 2005 Yes she knows exactly how i feel....we have many times before sayed we love each other...and had serious talks...we talked about marraige alot too...even tho we were highschoolers...yea that was weird. We have strong feelings for each other....its just things are weird i nono Link to post Share on other sites
WalkingTall Posted February 6, 2005 Share Posted February 6, 2005 My belief.... If she is in a relationship now, and you care for her, don't get in the middle of it. As hard as it is, wait on the sidelines. Lost loves can never be regained when you hurt someone to get it back. I hear your pain, but really the best thing to do is wait it out. Think to yourself how you would feel as the person she is seeing now. Through this pain you may find a piece of yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
Lonely Bunny Posted February 23, 2005 Share Posted February 23, 2005 Here is my opinion, First of all, love is not easy to deal with, specially if there is an "issue" in between; like the distance between you guys. But i think you will feel worse if you sit around and do nothing for YOUR feelings, you never know!! She might just be waiting for you to take the first step into a serious relationship...Good Luck! Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted March 12, 2005 Share Posted March 12, 2005 Your situation is kinda weird. Why did you break up in the first place? You can re-gain her love if you: 1) let her know that you love her and want her back 2) not involve any negative feelings like jealousy or despair or suicidal threats or whatever 3) if you don't make any pressure or demand her to leave her new boyfriend. But still, it's really up to her. Sometimes no matter what you do won't bring our beloved back. Link to post Share on other sites
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