WDBB Posted April 1, 2014 Share Posted April 1, 2014 Have been married for 7 years and we have two kids 2&6. He knows I'm unhappy and he knows why, he would Say he's not unhappy but I think he's in denial. He knows I'm close to saying the D word. The only reason I have Stayed is for the kids. We don't fight too much anymore Because I realize he won't change, he can't change and I'm tires Of fighting. My kids love our small home as do I. Financially I don't see how we could do it of we split and we would both Be living with our parents because rent would not be an option. We Barely make ends meet with our combined incomes. Our house is set Up that we could revise the lower level of the house a little and it would Be a studio apartment. We are friends and we are both committed to the kids More than anything. I could see us getting along fine in that situation. He works a lot so the apartment would be fine for him. We both would Keep our active roles as parents each day. But we would live separately And spend our time with the kids separately. We wouldn't have to split the Holidays. If we could figure out a fair way to pay the bills, is it possible That it's the best case scenario for the kids? I imagine it working out I haven't said anything to him because I don't know what my decision is. Link to post Share on other sites
karnak Posted April 2, 2014 Share Posted April 2, 2014 Bad decision. Sooner or later one of you (or both) will find new love interests and things will get sour if you remain in close contact. Link to post Share on other sites
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