MajorOak Posted April 1, 2014 Share Posted April 1, 2014 I have read athread somewhere that the quickest way to get a cheating spouse back is to letthem go to the OW/M. Just wondering if this method has been adopted by someoneand did it work? Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
RightThere Posted April 1, 2014 Share Posted April 1, 2014 I can tell you that I sent my STBXW out the door to go and move in with her OM. The fantasy of the affair definitely wore off very quickly as they had to deal with real life (dirty dishes, laundry) as opposed to just sneaking around and having dinner. They fell apart within a month or so and my STBXW moved out of the OM place and got her own place. It helped because she quickly realized all the promises he was making were hard to actually follow through on. The OM/OW will always promise the world because there is little chance they'll be required to follow through on it. They know what the WS wants to hear and they'll tell it to them all day long. Link to post Share on other sites
Shocked Suzie Posted April 1, 2014 Share Posted April 1, 2014 I have read athread somewhere that the quickest way to get a cheating spouse back is to letthem go to the OW/M. Just wondering if this method has been adopted by someoneand did it work? Thanks Nope.... Although him leaving me n our kids for another woman/her family I personally wouldn't want someone like that back. But no, he had a whirl wind romance of 4 months in 2012, properly left 2013 and they are still together... Although if they were to split he has nowhere to go and I think he hasn't the courage to start on his own... But yes he n the OW seem to be going strong SS x Link to post Share on other sites
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