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This guy is hard to read. Is he just nice or interested?


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LostInTheWind

I like a guy at my job. We’re both quiet & shy but seem comfortable with each other & have had long conversations. We have each other’s numbers but never really used them in the past. Now, however, we seem to text each other every now & then to tell each other random stuff even though we never text a lot & never really exchange more than 5 text messages or so. I don’t think he likes to text much. Over the past few weeks, I’ve noticed that when we’re at work, whenever he’s free, he comes over to talk to me almost as soon as he notices that I’m free. He's nice to everyone at work & most of us are girls but I'm not sure if he does that with them. In the past he hardly ever acknowledged my posts on social networks such as Facebook, etc. & now he seems to like them & comment on them more often. Not long ago, I posted something about being exhausted & he commented on it telling me to hold on just a bit longer because our break was almost here. Two days later, I posted something about being lazy with my class assignments & he commented on it telling me that I couldn’t be lazy until our break was here. A few days later, he texted me to tell me about a t-shirt he was wearing. I told him that I wished I could see it & he posted a picture of himself in the t-shirt on Facebook, a few minutes later. Days after that, I posted a status saying that I had no motivation to start a paper for class & then updated it after I actually started it & made some progress. He commented on it saying that he was proud of me. Last week, at work, I mentioned being cold. He didn’t seem to believe me so I told him to touch my hand & see for himself if he didn’t believe me. I didn’t think he actually would but, he did. He grabbed my hand in a tight grip at first but then loosened his grip as he pulled my hand towards him & gently moved his hand & fingers across mine. This lasted a few seconds, he agreed that I was cold & then we let go. This was the first time we touched each other so, it was a bit odd but nice. Most recently, we were both free at work & ended up having a conversation that lasted about an hour. After that, he left to go help some people from work host an event that was going on while I stayed at work with a few other people. Not long after he left, he texted me to tell me that were very few people were at the event. Because he’s shy & quiet, it’s hard to tell whether he’s just being nice or if he might be interested. What do you guys think?

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Secret Advisor

It's clear that YOU are interested. Its obvious that he likes you an enjoys your company. Go with the flow.

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