rdnjr Posted January 31, 2005 Share Posted January 31, 2005 I just got home from a second date with a girl I really like. I got on the computer and I had read on her website where she had posted about me on there. I couldn't believe my eyes; i had to read it about 5 times before it sank in. She had wrote about me that she thought i was cute, funny, and whatnot, but when i read the part where she had said "the problem is i dont like him, but i wish i really did", I about hit the floor. We had met almost a month ago, and we have been talking online since then, and i asked her out about 2 weeks later, and she said yes. By the way I am 17, she is 16. So we went on our first date, and i thought it went well. It felt more like we were friends just talking and having a good time. It felt akward but I had a good time nonetheless. This weekend i asked her out again and she said yes. So we went out and things didn't go to well. Neither of us were real talkitive. Things didnt work out too well tonight as i hoped they would. I thought about it on my way home and I thought maybe next time will be better. I only come home to find out that she doesn't like me. It hurts and sucks so bad. Im extremely pissed off too. If she didn't like me, why the hell didnt she just tell me before i got too attached? I felt like I wasted my time. It hurts so bad, and it's really hard to swallow that fact, but all I can do is pick up the pieces and move on. Any comments please I need other things to think about. Link to post Share on other sites
browneyes22 Posted January 31, 2005 Share Posted January 31, 2005 From the sound of that comment she seems to be more of the problem than you. Yeah...she really likes all this stuff about you and so on. But, the girl probably has other things that factor into her decision. She wishes she liked could mean that you have qualities she knows would be good for her, but may not necessarily want. Or, maybe she just wasn't feeling any chemistry. My advise...Your 17. Just keep at it. You'll have plenty of opportunities with many other girls. Link to post Share on other sites
EIN Posted January 31, 2005 Share Posted January 31, 2005 dont be too hard on yourself. You and her only had two dates. You guys did not get intimate yet but I can understand that your emotions was jolted a bit but as the poster before me says you're only 17, plenty more coming your way. Link to post Share on other sites
EIN Posted January 31, 2005 Share Posted January 31, 2005 btw you think 1 month of thinking about someone was a waste of time, try thinking of your high school crush for 6 years and I still got rejected. Link to post Share on other sites
Fuzzy Chickens Posted February 8, 2005 Share Posted February 8, 2005 Don't go postal quite yet. I know very few people who fall in love on the second date. Link to post Share on other sites
AMBOMB Posted February 27, 2005 Share Posted February 27, 2005 This girl is either a complete idiot or she's trying to manipulate you. Why would she post that she doesn't like you on your website knowing that you know the url to it? And why would she keep going out with you? And why would she think you were cute and funny but not like you? I recommend you cut off all contact with her and see how she reacts. It may be a good idea to terminate this relationship in any event. There' s no point in pursuing the relationship if she doesn't like you. And if she does like you and is trying to manipulate you, you need to ask yourself if you want to be involved with someone like that. Link to post Share on other sites
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