Merin Posted February 2, 2005 Share Posted February 2, 2005 ((Llama)) I know how you're feeling girl, I do.. Sheesh, I just want to kick him right in his ass! Wish there was something more I could do for you sista.. but I know all thats going to make things any better is time.. I'm here for ya. Link to post Share on other sites
savethedrama4allama Posted February 2, 2005 Share Posted February 2, 2005 Originally posted by Merin ((Llama)) I know how you're feeling girl, I do.. Sheesh, I just want to kick him right in his ass! Wish there was something more I could do for you sista.. but I know all thats going to make things any better is time.. I'm here for ya. thanks merin Link to post Share on other sites
Pocky Posted February 2, 2005 Share Posted February 2, 2005 Nice picture, mama. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted February 2, 2005 Share Posted February 2, 2005 Originally posted by Merin Sheesh, I just want to kick him right in his ass! sheesh!....there's prob 15 or 20 women running around out there who would love to do that to me! unfortunately, the qualities that women hate most in men (lying, cheating, arrogance, big egos, independence) are also the same qualities that they love most in men. Link to post Share on other sites
savethedrama4allama Posted February 2, 2005 Share Posted February 2, 2005 Originally posted by Pocky Nice picture, mama. Ooooh pocky! If you weren't married I'd say submit your resume! alpha, at least you're honest that you're an a**h***. My ex pretends to be Mr. Nice Guy. He deserves more kickin's for that. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted February 2, 2005 Share Posted February 2, 2005 Originally posted by savethedrama4yrmama alpha, at least you're honest that you're an a**h***. My ex pretends to be Mr. Nice Guy. He deserves more kickin's for that. i do, you're correct. up front I tell women: "look, think twice about getting involved with me" cause of these factors: - i am a normal avg guy, no better or worse than any other dude - i don't trust myself - i like to drink and smoke and party - i know i could never spend the rest of my life with one woman - my independence and privacy comes first - marriage and kids are probably out even AFTER i say this many of the women are still interested cause I lay it on the line and am honest AND i become a challenge. that way a yr down the road they can't say anything cause i already gave 'em my disclaimer. Link to post Share on other sites
savethedrama4allama Posted February 2, 2005 Share Posted February 2, 2005 True alpha, unlike mine who claimed he'd never break my heart! That sucka isn't a whole lot bigger than me so he better watch out for my right hook! Link to post Share on other sites
Pocky Posted February 2, 2005 Share Posted February 2, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale unfortunately, the qualities that women hate most in men (lying, cheating, arrogance, big egos, independence) are also the same qualities that they love most in men. Let's clarify: Lying: I'm not sure I've met any woman that actually wants her boyfriend/husband to lie to her. Time and time again we've seen issues on this board with women that find out their SO is lying to them. How many times have we heard that it's not "porn", it's that he lies to me about it. Or it's not that he's going out with a friend, but that he lies to me about it. Cheating: Unless the woman is watching or participating, I'm not aware of any woman that wants her boyfriend/husband to cheat on her. Arrogance: A little arrogance is sexy when this arrogance is combined with intelligence. My husband is arrogant, but he's got the intelligence to back it up. He's arrogant because he knows his ****. An ignorant arrogant man isn't sexy. Ego: Maybe women with an ego are attracted to men with an ego. I won't rule this one out and claim it's inaccurate. It could possibly be true for some women. Independence: Again, I will have to say that maybe some women are attracted to men that are dependent on them. Some people need to feel needed in order to be happy in a relationship. Personally, I don't want a man that's dependent on me and I don't want to be dependent on a man. My husband can survive without me in his life and that's how it should be. I just make it better. It is unfortunate that your experiences with women have left you so unaware of the differences in people and relationships. There's no golden rule to any relationship and there's no book out there that's going to help you figure it all out. People are individuals and people respond different in different situations. While the women you may have encountered have lead you to believe this way, not all women are like this. I've had more a**h***s in my life than "good men", but that doesn't cause me to assume that all men are a**h***s. There are some really great men out there. At least I still believe there is.. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted February 2, 2005 Share Posted February 2, 2005 Originally posted by savethedrama4yrmama True alpha, unlike mine who claimed he'd never break my heart! well how can someone say that honestly??? "oh yeah i'll nver break yer heart" or "oh, we'll be married forever" or "i'll luv u 4ever" who the f***k knows what will happen down the road?!? I just say "hey man, i can't guarantee anything 4 anyone but I'll do my best" Link to post Share on other sites
Pocky Posted February 2, 2005 Share Posted February 2, 2005 Originally posted by savethedrama4yrmama Ooooh pocky! If you weren't married I'd say submit your resume! and if I weren't married, I'd already have my plane ticket.. Link to post Share on other sites
savethedrama4allama Posted February 2, 2005 Share Posted February 2, 2005 Originally posted by Pocky and if I weren't married, I'd already have my plane ticket.. Ooooh. We need a smiley face that is so hot its smoking. Link to post Share on other sites
savethedrama4allama Posted February 2, 2005 Share Posted February 2, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale well how can someone say that honestly??? "oh yeah i'll nver break yer heart" or "oh, we'll be married forever" or "i'll luv u 4ever" who the f***k knows what will happen down the road?!? I just say "hey man, i can't guarantee anything 4 anyone but I'll do my best" To me, I'll never break your heart is a promise one can make. It means that he'd always respect me enough to end our relationship first if he wanted to do something that he knew would hurt me (lie, cheat). And it also means loving me enough to say he's sorry for what he's done instead of just being a d!ckwad. Link to post Share on other sites
Naive Posted February 2, 2005 Share Posted February 2, 2005 Originally posted by Merin You changed your SN? No of course not *looks around and whispers* I'll PM you and tell you what's up. Link to post Share on other sites
CurlyIam Posted February 2, 2005 Share Posted February 2, 2005 Hi, llama Sorry to hear the "old" news. Baaad, girl :( ! Stand your ground, if he's for real, he'll fight. Real men do, don't they?? So... don't worry, the way things go right now, instead of celebrating one year together, I'll prob join you too, LOOL!! I remember all the smart post I wrote in similar situations. Nothing like the ral thing. You'll be fine, llama. Curly P.S. You're really cute!!!! I bet you empty your PM box every day because of the resumes you got ! Link to post Share on other sites
Pocky Posted February 2, 2005 Share Posted February 2, 2005 Originally posted by savethedrama4yrmama Ooooh. We need a smiley face that is so hot its smoking. Link to post Share on other sites
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