hotpotato Posted April 7, 2014 Share Posted April 7, 2014 Oh gimme a break. I hear guys make these sorts of arguments all the time about why they didn't approach a particular woman, about how they don't want to be called creepy or are too scared or are too shy or blah blah, only to then turn around and approach another woman with no problem. The difference? Their attraction to the 2nd woman was enough to overcome their discomfort. If a guy really wants a girl, he goes for it. If he doesn't go for it, he doesn't really want it. I have yet to see a case where a guy was completely nuts over a girl and didn't approach her in some way (even if it was indirectly like trying to integrate himself into her social network.) What's so wrong with saying that maybe some of us ladies don't get approached cause we just aren't that attractive? Is there something radical about this concept? Exactly. If he wants it, he'll go after it. I've had elderly men come at me. If he can do that, so can a younger man. I dont want to hear any excuses! Link to post Share on other sites
RedRobin Posted April 8, 2014 Share Posted April 8, 2014 It worked 100% of the time...was reserved for girls who were locked into one spot, like a receptionist or a hostess, and couldn't approach me. Otherwise I would just do what I was doing, hold eye contact, smile, flash my dimples, go back to what I was doing and usually I was approached. That way it weeded out the insecure or the taken. Dating was fun back in the olden days, G You were smart... You didn't assume that women who approached you were desperate or man eaters.. Like some of the guys here... ...but I have to wonder... Did your now wife approach you or did you approach her? I have a sneaky suspicion that she was one of the few who managed to lure you into approaching her first... Maybe I'm wrong on that... Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted April 8, 2014 Share Posted April 8, 2014 Exactly. If he wants it, he'll go after it. I've had elderly men come at me. If he can do that, so can a younger man. I dont want to hear any excuses! Elderly men come from a different time and plus when some reach a certain many just don't care anymore. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ltjg45 Posted April 8, 2014 Share Posted April 8, 2014 Exactly. If he wants it, he'll go after it. I've had elderly men come at me. If he can do that, so can a younger man. I dont want to hear any excuses! Considering they came from a time where chasing women didn't get them chastised in public for it, I can see why they have no shame doing it while others isn't so quick to do the same. The world has changed quite a bit since then. Link to post Share on other sites
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