ProudLoner Posted April 5, 2014 Share Posted April 5, 2014 She has good intent. But she has a FEAR that is trailing down onto us and all those under, and we are all like pawns, knowing it, yet falling victim.. Only I see it, or SAY IT. One is that she has woman fears. Insecurity about her looks. Insecurity about everyone else being so "pretty" and she makes up for it by either passive aggressiveness, manipulative behavior, overpowering and owning homes and having dependants who she wants to behave and if not does passive things that cause them to not know where it's coming from. All because, she cannot SAY IT, that you are doing something that bothers her. She cannot say "dammit why are you doing that. Can you stop. Can you chip in.." Instead, she smiles and talks friendly. But soon, you will notice something. Maybe an increased rent. Maybe a sudden need to wash dishes. Maybe a sudden change in your normal allowances. The lack of SAYING what bothers you, at the moment, causes this. And in the end, WE all are left with problems, so it effects like 20-30 other people. All because of ONE person. I guess this is not a question, I just need to write this out. Because it is making ME crazy too. Thanks for listening. If you relate, hope this helps you too. Link to post Share on other sites
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