Broncos38 Posted April 5, 2014 Share Posted April 5, 2014 The social security didn't require her to have one to begin with. But my dad told social security that she needs one. But my dad doesn't know my fiancée's spending habits. It's like making assumptions you know and it's crazy. The payee told me I really don't need one cause I was medication I was not supposed to be on for the last three years. The lady at social security is wondering why my dad got involved in the first place. Butting in our business. Controlling the apartment situation like we're completely disabled and we're not. My dad got mad at me cause I want to take control of my life. The doctors threw me in the hospital for no reason cause my psychiatrist said that it was unspecified like I never had depression. I'm so angry with this mistake by the wrong doctors at the time. I went through something that I didn't have to go through. I had chances at jobs and missed out on opportunities and it caused havoc on my family. Link to post Share on other sites
Survivor12 Posted April 5, 2014 Share Posted April 5, 2014 It sounds as though you dad is concerned and trying to look out for you. If you are capable of getting a job and taking care of yourself, why would you need to be on SS disability? Sit down with your dad (alone) and ask him why he feels it's necessary to involve himself. Then try to really listen to what he says. Perhaps you can come up with a compromise or a way that would allow you to prove to him that you can be more capable and responsible that he thinks. Fighting with him and your doctors isn't going to solve anything. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted April 5, 2014 Share Posted April 5, 2014 Your dad is doing this out of love & concern, not to be mean. He wants the best for you & your FI. Since you have different ideas about what is best for you sit down & have a family meeting. Make your case logically. Link to post Share on other sites
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