Virgin26 Posted May 14, 2014 Share Posted May 14, 2014 In fact, it was more me that instigated it. I kind of lost interest in the relationship after we fought and broke up and got back a few times before. It wasn't until I had been single for a month that I realised I really loved her. I guess I was the one that had GIGS, and the irony is that she was the one that moved on. I 100% believe she was genuine when she said those things so it's illogical for me that people can just lose those feelings they held. I think your ego is hurt because you initiated the breakup and she moved on before you did. Let her live her life and try to focus on yours. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Frank2thepoint Posted May 14, 2014 Share Posted May 14, 2014 Granted, she's very needy and has rarely been single since she relies on a guy to be happy...but still how has she lost interest in ME, the one she adored. Eh, you just answered the last part of that sentence with the first part. She is very needy, can't be single, so she hops around to whoever wants her. Her fickle nature allows her to lose interest really quickly. Please advise At some point you will need to stop thinking about her. You need to stop over analyzing what happened. Often times the actions people undertake, which ends up being contrary to what they say, will leave you baffled for a long time if you dwell on it. Accepting it for what it is, allowing it to remain a mystery, is often the best course of action for moving on. Not everything has an explanation that makes sense. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
jt27 Posted May 14, 2014 Share Posted May 14, 2014 Seems that a lot of overlappers/relationship hoppers live for the honeymoon phase but then get lost when it's over, they don't know how to maintain an actual LTR. Bingo. I think that describes my ex too. When the actual work has to begin, they give up because a perfect relationship doesn't require work i.e. the honeymoon phase. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
7yearsbroken Posted May 14, 2014 Share Posted May 14, 2014 Brother, I have read your story and we are on the same boat. She left you for someone her parents won't approve huh, yea well for a time I thought that too. I was angry. Her mom actually told me she didn't like him and will never accept him neither. After seven years dating my ex, I was accepted by her whole family and extended family, and she left me after leaving to college into the arms of another man instantly. It has been a year of suffering, because even though I did not talk to my ex, I would check on her social media from afar, and it hurt me. NO CONTACT! It is the only way to go. She does not love you anymore. Get over it. I tell myself this and it is the truth. If she loved you do you think she wouldn't do everything in her power to try to fix things? No. She didn't. And woman who monkey branch to the next relationship won't change. When things get rough shell just jump ship again. Do you want that? People don't change. I was living in La la land, my brother wake up with me, and all the rest of us that have been heartbroken here on LS. I'm not saying it's easy for your ex neither, heartbreak sucks for both parties, but trust me she's getting over you! She's leaving you in the past and you should rebuild yourself to be stronger and better. You are not alone, I have faith things will get better for us. Don't be an ******* and just date someone while wanting to get back with your ex. That's wrong. You should be brutally honest with this girl because it's not fair. I will never do what my ex did to me. Forget about your ex, and don't expect her to come back, who knows what the future holds. You will feel like you are losing your mind, this is completely normal. I still have nightmares and demons I'm fighting. Be strong, you will be ok. Good luck 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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