reid Posted February 1, 2005 Share Posted February 1, 2005 My friend and I have been arguing alot lately about stupid little stuff. Like today I said i was only 2 years older then her and she said I was 3. So I said fine Im 2 years 3 months older and she gets mad and saying I hate it when people have to be right. I was so confused and I apologized but she never did to me. Anyone think that is a stupid reason to get mad at me for? Other then that she usually got a happy face around me, so im guessing shes not trying to tell me that she doesnt want to be my friend anymore. I asked her if she would be mad if I got dropped out my school that she just started going to also and she said shed kick my ass. Why is she being so mean to me? Another thing, today she was eating a bag of chips and she knew I wanted them, then she said she didnt want them and she threw it in the trash! I mean she put it in a way that I could just take it out but I thought that was rude. Does she hate me or something? Please help. Link to post Share on other sites
Lil Honey Posted February 2, 2005 Share Posted February 2, 2005 Reid: First, I don't think her saying that she'd "kick your ass" if you left the school was her way of being mean to you. I think it was a half-jokingly way of telling you that she wants you to stay. Second, are you a male? These little conversations that lead to arguments might just be a matter of bad timing. Third, I don't know what to say about the chips. You said that "she knew" that you wanted them. How did she know? Did you tell her? Did you ask for them? Or do you mean that she knows that you like them? There is a difference in knowing that you like something and knowing that you want something. If she said that she didn't want them and you didn't speak up, she may have thought that you didn't want them, and tossed them. BTW, NEVER consider pulling something back out of the trash . . . no matter what position it's in. That's just . . . germy and eeeewwwwy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author reid Posted February 2, 2005 Author Share Posted February 2, 2005 I said Ill eat them if you dont want them.So she knew. But today we were arguing again..... and I walked away from her and didnt look behind me then when she finaly got to me she said "Whats your problem?" (because I didnt look back) the same time I said the same exact thing. I feel like she is blowing me off cause I think she knows I like her, and she doesnt want the same.... mainly cause I said "Why do you think I do these things for you?" Do you think she might be pushing me away? I never told her yet. Today we were talking about how this jackass on a forums said she looked like a man (She doesnt, she is very pretty) cause we posted our pics. I told her she does not and She said something (dont remember) and I jokingly said "Thank you for saying im hot." and she just said "oooo..k" So I said "fine, you do look like a man."Only kidding and she knew I was. So I said you do not look like a guy, youre a very pretty GIRL. I asked her what she thought about me and she said "Its weird talking about a friends looks." (Something like that) Finaly she said "Fine, youre goodlooking. Better the everyone in our class." Keyword: CLASS. Why only class? I know she is shy but comeon, were friends. Oh yea and she said she only thinks 2 guys in our class are accually cute. When I asked she said no. Then she named them, cause i kept asking her and saying "Comeon, were friends. I thought if she does think theyre cute and im better then all of them then that must mean im pretty good looking to her. But it sounds like she says these things cause were friends and to get me off her back but I dunno. She is shy though so maybe she has a hard time telling me what she thinks about me. We cleared things up again and we were getting along better then we have before. When we finished eating she offered me gum... I heard that is a good sign, but maybe she just gave it to me because I bought her food. Comon I need help here! Do you think I should just tell her tomorrow? Link to post Share on other sites
Author reid Posted February 2, 2005 Author Share Posted February 2, 2005 When I say she is being mean to me I mean is she doesnt pay me my money back like when I helped her buy a movie cause she was short but didnt know it. Also that day I helped her she got the 7 dollars to pay me back SO SHE COULD BUY A FROSTY! I said buy me something and she said I could have 1 burger. I always buy her 2 things! She ended up buying me 2 cause I told her I buy her 2 things. She knew she was suppose to pay me back! Link to post Share on other sites
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