Brad_78 Posted April 8, 2014 Share Posted April 8, 2014 Hi, Do second chances work? A girl I like recently got dumped by her ex, but she has persuaded him to give it another go taking it slowly. 2 weeks have passed and they are still not back together officially, but going away together for a night on Friday to see if it will make or break them. We have strong mutual feelings for each other but I'm still second choice in all this which is painful for me, we became very close in the month that they were apart. If he hasn't made his mind up by now, will one night away persuade him that he needs her back? Link to post Share on other sites
erklat Posted April 8, 2014 Share Posted April 8, 2014 Move on. You need someone who wants to be with you. Even if she takes you of the backburner, she will not have any respect for you. Link to post Share on other sites
Priv Posted April 8, 2014 Share Posted April 8, 2014 Move on. You need someone who wants to be with you. Even if she takes you of the backburner, she will not have any respect for you. This. You don't even get rebound status... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Brad_78 Posted April 9, 2014 Author Share Posted April 9, 2014 My full story is on another forum here :- http://www.loveshack.org/forums/transitioning/friends-lovers/470527-fallen-friend-but-s-complicated It's a bit more difficult than that as she considers me her best friend. Walking away and breaking all ties isn't an option. You're right, and she doesn't respect herself either the way he's treated her over it all. She made me the happiest I've been in a long time so I guess I'm just holding out for it to all go wrong and she tells me everything I want to hear. Link to post Share on other sites
erklat Posted April 9, 2014 Share Posted April 9, 2014 You will find yourself in a world of hurt as you are clearly the one more invested here. I see either her going with him or you being friendzoned. Walk away while you still have a relative advantage becaus tthis will not become a healthy relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Brad_78 Posted April 9, 2014 Author Share Posted April 9, 2014 I feel that they will get back together, AND I will get friendzoned. Because it's the opposite of what I want to happen. Link to post Share on other sites
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