4givrnt4gtr Posted April 9, 2014 Share Posted April 9, 2014 There is something wrong with me and I can't figure out what it is. My fiancé just told me he loved me but he wasn't sure if he loved me enough to marry me. This is the fourth man who has given me this line in different stages of the relationship (as in I love you but not enough or I love you but Im not in love with you, or I really really like you but I can't seem to get to feel something stronger for you") In all these relationship it felt like we had a good thing going. This last one particularly. But in general, the other three it felt they were pretty good. No crazy red flags, we have a good time etc. In one of the last ones specially I thought the guy was falling in love with me, visiting all the time, calling me, making long term plans and suddenly " i can't seem to get to feel what I want for you" (pretty similar to what is going on now, just without a formal engagement). Another not only said that though he loved me he wasn't in love with me, but that whomever I marry would be a very lucky guy....WFT? What am I doing wrong? Why does this happen??? Ideas? Thoughts? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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