dazedandconfuse5 Posted April 9, 2014 Share Posted April 9, 2014 So My ex and I broke up about 2 months ago. She initiated it.We had some issues with our own lives and decided we needed t work on some things for our selves and that we would talk when the time was right. I took some time to think about things and try to get my head on strait. I have found some new thoughts about life and what went wrong between us. I wrote her a text the other day saying you crossed my mind today and thought about how your are doing I hoope life is giving you the best it has and your doing well. Which she responded right back with hey thanks I hope the same for you and my dog and asked how school was going! We text back and forth for the next 2 days about life and she is doing good. I left it and Im happy for you and sounds like you have good things ahead of you. I don't know how to go about writing her again to just talk about what ever. Any suggestions? Link to post Share on other sites
erklat Posted April 9, 2014 Share Posted April 9, 2014 Ever saw those cowboy movies where they ride in the sunset in the end? This is the same. You're just riding into Friendzoneland. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Babolat Posted April 9, 2014 Share Posted April 9, 2014 So My ex and I broke up about 2 months ago. She initiated it.We had some issues with our own lives and decided we needed t work on some things for our selves and that we would talk when the time was right. I took some time to think about things and try to get my head on strait. I have found some new thoughts about life and what went wrong between us. I wrote her a text the other day saying you crossed my mind today and thought about how your are doing I hoope life is giving you the best it has and your doing well. Which she responded right back with hey thanks I hope the same for you and my dog and asked how school was going! We text back and forth for the next 2 days about life and she is doing good. I left it and Im happy for you and sounds like you have good things ahead of you. I don't know how to go about writing her again to just talk about what ever. Any suggestions? I think it depends on where you left things when you broke up. Was it, lets take some time apart then talk again? With a date/time period? Honestly, I think you go back to NC. She was the dumper, if she wants you back, she will tell you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author dazedandconfuse5 Posted April 9, 2014 Author Share Posted April 9, 2014 funny you say that when I first met her I thought I was going in the the friendzone and was like F that and just kept it light over time that changed and she was happy that I didn't push her to be in a relationship and then it just happened we were in a relationship after about 2 months but I guess maybe just best since i wrote her to let her be and if she wants to talk she will write me. Link to post Share on other sites
Babolat Posted April 9, 2014 Share Posted April 9, 2014 funny you say that when I first met her I thought I was going in the the friendzone and was like F that and just kept it light over time that changed and she was happy that I didn't push her to be in a relationship and then it just happened we were in a relationship after about 2 months but I guess maybe just best since i wrote her to let her be and if she wants to talk she will write me. Ever heard of a paragraph, or a period? Just messing with you. I think you are into this more than she is. Link to post Share on other sites
mangetout Posted April 9, 2014 Share Posted April 9, 2014 funny you say that when I first met her I thought I was going in the the friendzone and was like F that and just kept it light over time that changed and she was happy that I didn't push her to be in a relationship and then it just happened we were in a relationship after about 2 months but I guess maybe just best since i wrote her to let her be and if she wants to talk she will write me. If you are happy to be friends with her then I would text her every now and then.. send a joke, mention something you saw on tv etc. keep it light and infrequent But if you are fishing to see whether this girl still has feelings for you still then you need to bite this one in the bullet. Say something like it was nice to hear off her but it was a mistake to contact her because you can't be friends. All the best etc... She will let you know what she wants from you Link to post Share on other sites
Author dazedandconfuse5 Posted April 10, 2014 Author Share Posted April 10, 2014 I'm the worse at writing haha!! On that note she still goes on my social media more then I do her's. I don't understand if she didnt want anything to do with me why keep checking up on me and staying in my life? Well I'm here just to get advice which I thank you all for. I may write her in the future as she is a great girl tho things didn't work out who knows in time. I did date a girl years ago we didn't talk for about 5 years then got back together for 5 years. On top of it with her living about 5 hours away it's hard to say what good it would do right now anyways. Next year I'm going to be moving to where she lives for school which is a little funny. And no I didn't choose a school where she lives for her it has the best program for ME! Well I'll try to keep updates if anything changes and again thanks for your support everyone! Link to post Share on other sites
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