How To Play It From Now On?

[Holster1]

Ok bit of background, went out Saturday with a load of workmates which included a girl i really like, and she knows i like her, her sister was out also and as the night went on i asked her sister if shed ever spoke about me before and to my suprise she said "yeah she speaks very highly of you, and has the upmost respect for you, just with the situation at the mo with her ex youve just gotta give her some time, she knows your there for her if she needs you" i was really taken aback by that as id never expected her to say that about me.

 

question is how shall i play it now knowing this information from her sister?

 

Do i just wait for her to come to me or shall i ask her out sometime? at work we talk amd have a laugh and i theres deffinately interest there as she goes shy on me when we make eye contact and she laughs and smiles at me all the time, she aslo txt me before i txt her on sunday night appologising for leaving early sat night which was so out of the blue as i never before thought she cared. spoke to her on the phone tonight as a mate of mine at work said he spoke to her today and said she thought i was being a bit off with her cos she left early on sat night but it was actually to do with the fact id just had a bad day at work so said sorry to her and explained why, at the end of the chat she said "thanks for calling me and see you tommorow"

 

Just kinda in the situation now where im just confussed, obviouslly she likes me from what her sister said, dont wanna seem too pushy by txtin her or seeing like im there all the time at work in her face, but on the other hand dont want her to feel like im isolating her, dont know whether to ask her out again? What would you guys do? any advice appreciated, thanks.

[tattoomytoe]

well you wrote it, the sister told you: "with the situation at the moment with her ex youve just gotta give her some time, she knows your there for her if she needs you"

so wait for her to contact you.

you might say that you had a nice chat with her sister the other night ....and you thought maybe you two(you and her) might go out for coffee sometime.....

[Holster1]

Let me mentione about her ex, she was with him for between 3-6yrs, never really asked about it but she has a child with him whos now 3, he was and still is very abusive to her both physically and mentally, hell arrange for her and his daughter to go out together but when she suggests he comes over hell make excuses, after saturday night and finding out what i did ive seen her in a new light and know i must be on the right track, she was down on monday and i asked what was up and at first she was reluctant to mention anything but i asked again and she came back and said ill explain later, she did explain later and said to me she wants a clean break from him and set up proper visiting rights etc and he normally picks his daughter up from nursery and brings her over to her place when she gets in but shes told me now that she wants him to drop his daughter off at her mums house so she will pick her up there and so reduce seeing him even more.

 

Its got to be a good thing for me right? and after she explained all this she said to me and looked me in the eye and smiled "thanks babe". for me listening.