Asking a friend out?

[cold_camel]

Hi all

 

I really like this girl, I met her in my math class through a friend about a year and a half ago.

 

Over the first few months I realised that I fancied her. It has been a year since then and still I have done nothing about it. During the last few months I have walked home from collage with her a lot and each Wednesday we have the same lesson ending time, so we agreed to walk home that day.

 

I really want to ask her out but I don't know how to go about it, and I can't be sure as to whether she likes me back.

 

It's gotten a lot worse lately I can't stop thiking about her, please help me!!

 

cold_camel

[Magus]

Dude, you gotta have a plan for the date.

1. set a timeline. when should she be home? when does the movie start n end? estimate maybe an hour for dinner, or if you go out on a weekend, lunch.

2. slip it into the conversation. "so, would you like to go to a movie friday night?"

3. DON'T take it too seriously. after all its just the first date, n the worst she could say is "no".

Then at least you can get move along to the next lovely lady.

 

Good luck man!

[Spirit]

Hi cold_camel,

 

... and I can't be sure as to whether she likes me back.

 

Have you asked her for her phone number? If you haven't already, take a deep breath... then ask her flat out for her phone number. Girls offer their number if they're interested to get to know the guy. In my experience, the response to this question is almost foolproof: any response other than "sure... here is my number..." from her means "no thanks, but thanks for asking anyways."

 

I hope this helps, and be sure to keep us posted!

[clynn]

Have you asked yet?

 

How did it go?

 

I like the asking for phone number idea first....?