Has anyone had there wife come out of the affair fog?. How did you deal with it?.

[GarrusVakarian]

I wont go into to much detail as I have been through it a few times on here already lol?. But short story is my wife of two years had or is most likely still having an affair with a married man twenty years older. I found out last September. Now I am not saying I want her back, to be honest its far too late for that now. But I have been reading about the affair fog!.

 

 

But how have people dealt with there wives/husbands who finally come out of the affair fog months later after walking out on marriage?. Did they come back begging to save marriage, I have made a mistake I want to come back!. Just interested in hearing people stories.

 

 

Reading about this affair fog. Its not an excuse for a wayward spouses actions, far from it. I am not even sure if I buy it. But it does match closely everything my wife has said about me!.

[aliveagain]

Does it really matter when your married less than 2 years and the guy she's banging is 20 years older than you and married? Where does she expect the relationship to go when the guy is that much older and married? You need to do more "Who gives a sh*t" with her and find someone who is faithful.