bryceisbryce Posted April 13, 2014 Share Posted April 13, 2014 I have a close friend that I talk to every day. She dates other people, I date other people. I'm not used to LDRs at all, not even friendships, so I'm trying to figure out if she's interested in me or if I'm super friendzoned and she's just very comfortable with me(I have no problem with being friendzoned because I'd rather not do LDR dating). She confides in me, gives backhanded compliments(we're cheeky people), and jokes about us being intimate/getting married. On the other hand she asks me for advice about other guys and when I met her we agreed to just use each other for our own selfish companionship needs (We were both very honest about our intentions) I decided to see how she would react to hearing about me going on a date so when she texted me Thursday and asked about what I would be doing this weekend I told her that I had a date. She responded have fun and that she doesn't want to hear about it if I actually like the girl. I told her not to be jealous because I would've asked her out a long time ago if I lived closer(she lives halfway across the country). She just never responded.... and she's usually really quick about responding to me, even when she's incredibly busy at work. Making snarky and blunt comments to each other is very normal for us and we're extremely honest with each other so it's weird for her to just ignore me for saying something stupid. Does she have feelings for me? Or is she freaking out because she thinks she needs to let me down gently? Link to post Share on other sites
shinealight Posted April 14, 2014 Share Posted April 14, 2014 Maybe she just hasn't found the time or cant tell you how she feels hence the being weird/jealous about the date you had. You can tell when someone does like you though because they text/call you all the time saying how wonderful you are ect. And if you feel the same way about her then don't let her run away. Link to post Share on other sites
justwhoiam Posted April 15, 2014 Share Posted April 15, 2014 I don't know what your question is exactly. Do you want to know if she likes you romantically? Or if she would like to be your girlfriend? Because they are not the same thing. It might be yes to the former and no to the latter. By the way, if she likes you, I guess it's enough for you to let her know about a couple of things you did with girls, where you come across as a gentleman with them and not as a jerk, and it'd be quite irresistible for her. Because she will put herself in their shoes. Almost granted. But if she's a tough cookie, she won't give her feelings away that easily. Link to post Share on other sites
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