iworthmore Posted April 14, 2014 Share Posted April 14, 2014 hey LS,, been a while since i last posted. i was wondering about such dilemma, me and my friends have faced such problem with ex's from both genders. after the break up, and no contact for months, during this time u'v improved urself in every life aspect. and the ex ( in this case is ex gf). showing signs but not talking or initiating contact at all. the signs r obvious. she ended things, was a bad break up. and then i disappeared. strict NC. and moved on. but recently i am thinking of a second chance cuz i reached the level that im ready for the outcome no matter what it is. i know ignoring an ex and living ur life usually make them miss and think about u. and this is true. ( unless they already with someone else). the RS ended with me saying hurtful things and then i apologized. to get to the point after the background... can an ex hide their feeling and never initiate contact waiting for you to do?? if someone reach out after months of NC wont it be a huge turn off?? and what about dignity? will you try again with someone who made it clear that its over but then filled you with mixed signs and bread crumbs. thanks in advance. Link to post Share on other sites
EuTuBrute Posted April 14, 2014 Share Posted April 14, 2014 You miss 100% of the shots you dont take. If you miss them, reach out to them. HOWEVER like you said only do it when you are fine with the outcome; that be talking again or complete and udder rejection. Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted April 14, 2014 Share Posted April 14, 2014 If she really wants you, she'll make the effort. "Signs" don't matter; if she broke it, she has to be the one to fix it. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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