Baumer Posted April 15, 2014 Posted April 15, 2014 Better to call or text to set up date? And if the former ask to call or call out of the blue?
Mo_Do Posted April 15, 2014 Posted April 15, 2014 What point are we at here? If you haven't met don't call her out of the blue.
Candy_Pants Posted April 15, 2014 Posted April 15, 2014 Call her. Yeah, even "out of the blue". But only once, and if she doesn't answer leave a brief message on voicemail, then DO NOT text or call unless she texts or calls. 2
Author Baumer Posted April 15, 2014 Author Posted April 15, 2014 Met this weekend. Don't exactly live close but I have to try. She gave me her number. We've texted a bit, but her interest level isn't clear. Seems to leave me hanging for a bit but then gets back apologetically and using exclamations hunny, etc. Figure with a call I can clear it up quicker
Author Baumer Posted April 15, 2014 Author Posted April 15, 2014 So I'm definitely going to call. If there's no answer do I leave a voicemail? Ask her out in it or just ask her to call back? Still unsure about that scenario.
mammasita Posted April 15, 2014 Posted April 15, 2014 I'm going to disagree with everyone that says "just call" - I HATE HATE HATE speaking on the phone. Even if you call me, I'll watch my phone ring - wont care if you leave a message and just wait for you to text. Age doesn't mattter (I'm in my 30's) personal preferance does. I only ever call my mom when I'm driving...she doesn't know how to text so I HAVE to call her, otherwise I would never. That said, I would text first then figure out her preference and go with it.
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