Don't think this no contact will work.

[Simon Phoenix]

I think I do feel as tho I'm in a relationship with him and that this is just a silly fall out and we will be back together.

dunno why I am deluding myself.

ok , 2 weeks is nothing, it felt like a LOT longer.

i am so angry he had to contact my mum which he clearly did to embarrass me as it seems a bit dramatic after only contacting him twice in the just over 3 weeks we've split up, I suppose its cus I was an idiot rather a mature adult, both times, but i still feel he could just leave it at blocking me.

perhaps he is getting a kick , thinking he has a fan now.

 

Im not the type who will harrass daily tho

 

How about not harass at all? I mean, you are trying to make him out to be the bad guy, but all of this is your doing. All of it. He never would have contacted your mom if you didn't chase after him in the first place! You have to take responsibility for your actions and stop worrying about his. I'm not saying you are bad, I'm saying that you need to get back to the real world.

 

And No Contact takes several months at minimum. You really need to do it and stop cheating, being lazy and cutting corners.

[thirdxeyexblind]

Ive been doing a bit of thinking and I think he is a bad guy too, for kicking me out for a stupid mistake, their names are similar for christ sake. I was angry at him for not understanding, yes. but I expected someone I was close to , to understand at least a little bit.

rather than just totally cut me out , confused and angry i did stupid things.

 

Those are the things he can be angry and not forgive me about. but he was pretty quick to join back up to the dating site after kicking me out the same night BEFORE the total stupidity.

 

Saying a different name doesn't mean i have feelings or was even thinking about this guy!!!!!

it was a genuine mistake.

 

Ive also broke the no drinking and had a small bottle of vodka just tonight tho, but Ive not felt any urge to do anything stupid.