M30USA Posted April 23, 2014 Share Posted April 23, 2014 (edited) No matter what I try to change, I find myself still attracted to the same kind of women as my ex wife--ones that I know are dangerous and unstable. Even the same dark hair color, short height, and big eyes. What the heck can I do? I need to change my attraction to more stable women. Any advice? I cannot afford to get screwed over badly again in life and would sooner be single forever than repeat my mistake. Edited April 23, 2014 by M30USA Link to post Share on other sites
SpiralOut Posted April 23, 2014 Share Posted April 23, 2014 I have found that as I change myself, I lose interest in certain types of men. I always went for "bad gone good" men, like recovered drug addicts, former criminals. I think it was my way of trying to make up for my ****ty brother-sister relationship. My brother was a troubled teenager, but he's got his head on straight now. I've always felt bad about not being close to him. As I develop a closer relationship to my brother, I'm suddenly not interested in those types anymore. You are attracted to unstable women for a reason. They help to fulfill a need. I don't know enough about you to say what that need might be, but I think figuring it out is the key. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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