newbie Posted February 4, 2005 Share Posted February 4, 2005 Hi Keep an open mind when reading this.. PLEASE! I used to adore this guy 3 years ago, and he gave me the impression that he did too, but ended up breakin my heart and going out with someone older. I moved on and had a relationship of my own. When both ended, he started flirting with me once again. And at first I just ignored it and so on. Now, Im giving in to his charms. But we havent done anything sexual since last time i liked him. its all just been talk.. Now he's going abroad, and well, i wont see him for a year. Would a sexual encounter be regarded as shallow? Would i be judged if i just give him head or something as a going away present? I really want to do this, simply because hes been beggin for it and i fancy him. So why not? All my friends will go psycho at me if they find out, though. is it really a whorish thing to do? Another problem is that Ive started seeing this guy just recently. Yup, so thats it! Opinions please!! Link to post Share on other sites
emopunk Posted February 4, 2005 Share Posted February 4, 2005 You're seeing another guy at the moment? Link to post Share on other sites
Author newbie Posted February 4, 2005 Author Share Posted February 4, 2005 Yes I am, but its not serious right now. Link to post Share on other sites
emopunk Posted February 4, 2005 Share Posted February 4, 2005 Okay, fair enough. Does the original guy know about the current datee? Link to post Share on other sites
Bryanp Posted February 4, 2005 Share Posted February 4, 2005 Hi, Just a quick question. How would you feel if the guy you are currently dating told you he wanted to have sex with another girl as a going away gift for her? Would it bother you? Link to post Share on other sites
Cecelius Posted February 4, 2005 Share Posted February 4, 2005 ...it's not serious now, nor will it ever become serious. The guy broke your heart He's not dating you He wants you to do porn star stuff to him before he walks away for a year. That's not really a tough call to me. Link to post Share on other sites
Author newbie Posted February 5, 2005 Author Share Posted February 5, 2005 Okay guys.. you're all judging me! Well.. because it isn't serious, the datee doesn't need to know, does he? This guy broke my heart a while ago, we've moved on, and I still find him attractive. It would be as fun for me as it is for him. Honestly.. Link to post Share on other sites
ziggue Posted February 5, 2005 Share Posted February 5, 2005 Be honest. Before making your decision. Make sure the guy that you are dating knows where he stands at the moment. Talk to him before you do anything with this other guy. If you do have sex with him (your ex) one last time make sure that you know that it is only sexual and not anything more. You don't want to get your heart broken again. Just a warning. Link to post Share on other sites
sweet-oooh Posted February 6, 2005 Share Posted February 6, 2005 Well if you and your new b/f are not serious, and you really wanna have sex with your ex then i dont see whats so wrong with it, it sounds like you really want to but you need to ask yourself first, how did you cope when you split with your ex?? Is this gonna lead you to thinking that he will want you back?? If you can do it just for the sex and then not feel like s**t when he walks away, then why not enjoy him one last time? But personally, when i have sex with someone there are always emotions that go with it, and if you are not over him yet then it could be a huge mistake. If its just sex, then thats fine, but are you sure? Link to post Share on other sites
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