Author samantha0111 Posted April 23, 2014 Author Share Posted April 23, 2014 You will forget him if you put enough time and space between the two of you. And what you do with your time is important. Get involved with school. Start volunteering. Since you have concern and loving a child in need, you can sign up to at a children's shelter, a bigbrother bigsister organization. They have children there that need love, care and attention. Go out with your friends.Get involved in a meetup group or find a hobby and meet people of similar interests. Start doing things to fill your life. You are not able to accept anyone as your partner FOR NOW because you are still emotional about him. All you see is him. All you want is him. In time, as you heal and as you move away from him, your heart will open again to the concept of love and companionship. When I break up with someone, I don't want a man near me. When I am healed and happy with life again, I look forward to engaging with the opposite sex. But I tried these 5 months? Link to post Share on other sites
Zahara Posted April 23, 2014 Share Posted April 23, 2014 But I tried these 5 months? No, you didn't. You had 5 months of people feeding you information about this man. For 5 months you knew about his every move. You had 5 months of being connected to this man via information from fans, ex-wife and family. And even if you were complete NO CONTACT -- meaning no news, no information, no talking to ex-wife, family, fans, no media stalking, no nothing -- 5 months isn't enough time to completely get over someone and heal. My last ex took me nearly a year or so to find some indifference. Even then I would still be sad if I heard news about him. You have not invested in cold hard turkey NC. It is what you need. Link to post Share on other sites
passion_flower Posted April 23, 2014 Share Posted April 23, 2014 Fans? Is this guy a pop star or something? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
notserene Posted April 23, 2014 Share Posted April 23, 2014 I don't know why the thread starter keeps posting when she has her mind made up. Link to post Share on other sites
Phantom888 Posted April 23, 2014 Share Posted April 23, 2014 He is not a good person. He lies, is a player, has no feelings for his family and is hardcore womaniser. He flirts and sleeps with any pretty woman. He is extremely good looking and very wealthy. I don't know why I love him but I love him a lot. You love him because he's good looking and rich. You even see him as a jerk, so what other qualities would attract you? Don't waste time loving someone who is not good for ANYONE. He doesn't even have custody of his own child. This man is bad news. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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