moonshadow18 Posted April 23, 2014 Share Posted April 23, 2014 I've been on an online dating with this guy who lives in Texas. He's 18 and I'm 24. Im im Hong Kong but soon to cross to Canada. We've been on this LDR thing for almost 5 months. Recently we have been constantly fighting over the same kind of things. Mostly on his end like vises and everything and to break the record he's got into jail for like three times since we started talking. He's out now tho and that was one of the major causes why we broke up recently, he got arreated because of his unpaid tickets. I just couldnt stand whats happening to him anymore. There's just so much to deal with. We've been thru this on and off thing several times but we always get back together. This recent break up tho, I decided to closed down my facebook account where he contacts me, its been off four almost five days now and I have no.plan of reactivating is so far. For some reason I just dont feel like going back there eventho im missing him and dying to talk to him. I also closed my skype account so he cant contact me, this is hard but I'm trying to go no contact to him at all. I have his phone number but I told myself not to call under any circumstaces. We havent been talking since Friday. This morning tho he finally sent me a text asking if Im okay and said he misses me a lot and that he loves me and that he would never want this to end. I cried a little to see the text but I responded and said this is whats best for us. I do miss him a lot and I do love him too just the things going on really turns me off. I just dont know anymore whether its still worth going back after all thats going on to him. Im not sure whether Im doing the right thing or not. Weve been thru this sooo many times and I feel as tho Im not as affected as before anymore. I dont feel as bad as the previous breakups altho i feel that I miss him a lot sometimes but I can get thru it not like before. I dont know what to do, Should I stop talking to him for good or should I give it a little time and let him be on his own and so as have myself some ME time and go back and give him another chance? Normally I just let things pass and forgive him then get back together but this time Im not sure whether I have to do that after a while Or should I not go back anymore at all? I feel the sincerity in his words when he tells me he loves me and I swear feel the same. I love him too. Im so confused right now.. We have so many dreams together. We really made great memories in the recent months. Please help!!! What should I do this time??? Should I throw our promises and dreams away now? Or should I.let him fix himself and comeback later on? Link to post Share on other sites
CaliBabe Posted April 23, 2014 Share Posted April 23, 2014 5 months? AND its long distance? No. Dump him. Find someone in your area whom you can spend time with and have less stress. This just doesn't sound like its worth it and I think you know that. Link to post Share on other sites
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