Eivuwan Posted April 26, 2014 Share Posted April 26, 2014 i guess thats your opinion im in a good happy relationship with lots of intense passionate sex with a lot of love. if thats weak then im weak. Ok, OP you are very happy so what's the point of arguing with us? Go enjoy your sex and food. Link to post Share on other sites
hoping2heal Posted April 27, 2014 Share Posted April 27, 2014 I'm not trolling that's be a waste of my life and yours, but think what you want. No, you are trolling. No one comes here looking for advice and then adamantly disagrees with any opposition. In other words, you're saying you have a problem and need help and then continually saying there is no problem in the other breath. Sure, people ask for advice and don't take it all of the time. But, they still agree there's at least an initial problem. This is where you're doing it wrong So, I guess this has just been a waste of your time and ours 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Samharvey Posted April 27, 2014 Author Share Posted April 27, 2014 No, you are trolling. No one comes here looking for advice and then adamantly disagrees with any opposition. In other words, you're saying you have a problem and need help and then continually saying there is no problem in the other breath. Sure, people ask for advice and don't take it all of the time. But, they still agree there's at least an initial problem. This is where you're doing it wrong So, I guess this has just been a waste of your time and ours The reason I disagree with most people is because they are only seeing the black and white side to this. Saying I'm overweight and I have health problems and my gf is controlling and I'm spineless. Nobody is actually trying to see other sides to the story. It's not as simple as she's dominant and I'm not. I want to see her happy. And I enjoy making her happy. And sex is fantastic. Nobody here as tried to suggest a balance of the two? Link to post Share on other sites
passion_flower Posted April 27, 2014 Share Posted April 27, 2014 The reason I disagree with most people is because they are only seeing the black and white side to this. Saying I'm overweight and I have health problems and my gf is controlling and I'm spineless. Nobody is actually trying to see other sides to the story. It's not as simple as she's dominant and I'm not. I want to see her happy. And I enjoy making her happy. And sex is fantastic. Nobody here as tried to suggest a balance of the two? Can you not make her happy in other ways? Anyone who gets off on making their partner fat has issues and as for you, if you're genuine, you can't see the wood for the trees. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Samharvey Posted April 27, 2014 Author Share Posted April 27, 2014 The reason I disagree with most people is because they are only seeing the black and white side to this. Saying I'm overweight and I have health problems and my gf is controlling and I'm spineless. Nobody is actually trying to see other sides to the story. It's not as simple as she's dominant and I'm not. I want to see her happy. And I enjoy making her happy. And sex is fantastic. Nobody here as tried to suggest a balance of the two? Can you not make her happy in other ways? Anyone who gets off on making their partner fat has issues and as for you, if you're genuine, you can't see the wood for the trees. I don't care about being a bit chubby, if that makes her happy then that's fine. Link to post Share on other sites
hoping2heal Posted April 27, 2014 Share Posted April 27, 2014 The reason I disagree with most people is because they are only seeing the black and white side to this. Saying I'm overweight and I have health problems and my gf is controlling and I'm spineless. Nobody is actually trying to see other sides to the story. It's not as simple as she's dominant and I'm not. I want to see her happy. And I enjoy making her happy. And sex is fantastic. Nobody here as tried to suggest a balance of the two? So, then I guess my next question would be..so what's the problem?! If you being overweight leads to better sex and a better relationship then what is it you're griping about? Or, is this like humble bragging? "Gosh, it's sooo hard having a husband who makes boat loads of cash and just tells me to go shopping all day. I don't even know which store to choose". I mean, what is it you're looking for, in the event that you're being serious? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Samharvey Posted June 9, 2014 Author Share Posted June 9, 2014 I guess I'm just curious what people's views are on this. I'm at the biggest I have ever been now. Shocked iv put on so much weight. image_zps004c46c4.jpg Photo by ryanharvey567 | Photobucket Link to post Share on other sites
martaldn Posted June 9, 2014 Share Posted June 9, 2014 as long as you are happy and your relationship is not suffering for that ( apparently is instead the opposite ) then there is not much of advise we can give you. in a long run this is gonna ruin your health but you dont sound like you care much. so good luck Link to post Share on other sites
MidwestUSA Posted June 9, 2014 Share Posted June 9, 2014 It looks like you're working your way up to an appearance on My 650 lb Life! We eagerly await your episode. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Zahara Posted June 9, 2014 Share Posted June 9, 2014 Goodness, I read the whole thread. I remember my doctor saying this when he was treating my ex-husband for his weight issues and the dangerous effects of belly fat -- much higher risk for diabetes, high blood pressure, stroke, etc. You and your girlfriend are seriously misguided. Link to post Share on other sites
FitChick Posted June 9, 2014 Share Posted June 9, 2014 Do you have a lot of money and other assets? Is she the beneficiary on your life insurance policy? Has she suddenly bought a lot of rat poison? Has she applied for a concealed carry permit? Does she accidentally leave her shoes on the staircase in the middle of the night? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Samharvey Posted June 9, 2014 Author Share Posted June 9, 2014 It looks like you're working your way up to an appearance on My 650 lb Life! We eagerly await your episode. I think I'm quite awhile off that yet Link to post Share on other sites
Author Samharvey Posted June 9, 2014 Author Share Posted June 9, 2014 Do you have a lot of money and other assets? Is she the beneficiary on your life insurance policy? Has she suddenly bought a lot of rat poison? Has she applied for a concealed carry permit? Does she accidentally leave her shoes on the staircase in the middle of the night? None of the above. She just liked fattening me up Link to post Share on other sites
BradJacobs Posted June 9, 2014 Share Posted June 9, 2014 None of the above. She just liked fattening me up If she wanted you to start doing lines of blow would you? When are you going to put your foot down? Link to post Share on other sites
scorpiogirl Posted June 9, 2014 Share Posted June 9, 2014 People have told you what they thought. What more do you want? You're looking for attention and clearly you like the way you look. No need to post updated pictures to ask for new replies. Read your other posts in this thread. They stand. You also appear to have answered your own questions. Nothing more to say. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
spiderowl Posted June 9, 2014 Share Posted June 9, 2014 You know, I think you like your weight. You like to draw attention to it and are proud that your girlfriend shares this liking too. I don't know about your girlfriend wanting to make you fat; I think you like it too, otherwise why bother seeking attention over it? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Samharvey Posted June 9, 2014 Author Share Posted June 9, 2014 People have told you what they thought. What more do you want? You're looking for attention and clearly you like the way you look. No need to post updated pictures to ask for new replies. Read your other posts in this thread. They stand. You also appear to have answered your own questions. Nothing more to say. That's true but iv gained 80lbs in less than a year on purpose. Thought people might find reverse weight progress interesting Link to post Share on other sites
Author Samharvey Posted June 9, 2014 Author Share Posted June 9, 2014 You know, I think you like your weight. You like to draw attention to it and are proud that your girlfriend shares this liking too. I don't know about your girlfriend wanting to make you fat; I think you like it too, otherwise why bother seeking attention over it? I guess her lusting for my fat has made me enjoy getting fatter yes. Link to post Share on other sites
spiderowl Posted June 9, 2014 Share Posted June 9, 2014 You two seem to share the same fetish. Link to post Share on other sites
scorpiogirl Posted June 9, 2014 Share Posted June 9, 2014 That's true but iv gained 80lbs in less than a year on purpose. Thought people might find reverse weight progress interesting Not really 2 Link to post Share on other sites
CarrieT Posted June 9, 2014 Share Posted June 9, 2014 I don't care about being a bit chubby, if that makes her happy then that's fine. What you are now is WAY beyond chubby... Have you done any reading about Type II Diabetes and other health issues that the weight gain is going to cause? Link to post Share on other sites
ascendotum Posted June 10, 2014 Share Posted June 10, 2014 (edited) That's true but iv gained 80lbs in less than a year on purpose. Thought people might find reverse weight progress interesting Ive had to work hard to put on weight for numerous years, and would be happy to top out with 80 lbs total but not in one frikken year. I'd want the bulk of that gain to be in muscle. If a lot of my weight gain was going around my waste I wouldn't want it. This thread is so bizarre. Why the **** did your gf start going out with you to begin with if you were that far off her ideal. Lots of women love beefy, stocky, chubster, thick neck guys, but they flirt with them & date them. Its not like they are the elites and they have to take an avg/slim guy and make him a work in progress to get that ideal. I'm not a body nazi and some of my friends had/have builds like this, but to do this to please your gf is screwy and her motive is too. Edited June 10, 2014 by ascendotum Link to post Share on other sites
jbelle6 Posted June 10, 2014 Share Posted June 10, 2014 It's not because she wants me ugly. Fat men turn her on. She plays with my penis while i eat. I love food and I love sex so it's hard to say no. http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lveo8rrzLv1qeofamo1_500.png 5 Link to post Share on other sites
abby_tx Posted June 10, 2014 Share Posted June 10, 2014 So when you break up, you'll go back to your old weight and have saggy skin and stretch marks due to the rapid weight gain. You should NEVER let a mate make you change...especially for the worse. That's like me running out and getting breast implants because a guy like big boobs. **** it. Be yourself and don't be what she wants you to be. Sounds like this girl is a bit messed up in the head to be honest. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Samharvey Posted June 10, 2014 Author Share Posted June 10, 2014 Ive had to work hard to put on weight for numerous years, and would be happy to top out with 80 lbs total but not in one frikken year. I'd want the bulk of that gain to be in muscle. If a lot of my weight gain was going around my waste I wouldn't want it. This thread is so bizarre. Why the **** did your gf start going out with you to begin with if you were that far off her ideal. Lots of women love beefy, stocky, chubster, thick neck guys, but they flirt with them & date them. Its not like they are the elites and they have to take an avg/slim guy and make him a work in progress to get that ideal. I'm not a body nazi and some of my friends had/have builds like this, but to do this to please your gf is screwy and her motive is too. I used to be chubby a few years back so maybe she saw the way I looked in old pictures and saw potential. I did ask why she didn't chose a fat guy and she said she prefers my face. And she enjoys the fattening up process. Link to post Share on other sites
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