BiancaRura Posted February 4, 2005 Share Posted February 4, 2005 I really dont know where to begin. Lets start with the fact that Ive been married for a little over a year now and I just dont know what to do. My husband and I have been fighting like crazy for the past several months and I dont really know why. I know we hav a lot of stress going on right now. We lived in TX but was moving to MO when the trouble started..... My husband wanted me to go stay with my aunt while he was packing up our stuff and moved it all to MO and got situated here. I wanted to saty withhim but called my aunt NEway. She was having problems so I couldnt stay with her. Then we got into a fight and I ran off to a friends house and they told me that my husband only wanted me to stay with my aunt so he could leave me.... he swears its not true. They also kept trying to get my husband and I to argue. Now we are in MO away from those people and we are staying in a hotel til we can find a place, we've been in a hotel for like 2 months now. Its small, cramped and Im going out of my mind. I dont know if its because of this that we are fighting or what. Every time anything needs to get done, he tells me to do it, but he stays at home all day everyday. Im the one bringing in the money, not him (Well right now, not him.... he usually has a job).I dont know if I resent him for not working or for not being pregnant (we've been trying for a year and a half) or what..... I need HELP........ Please.... I love my husband with all my heart, I dont want to loose him but if we keep fighting like this I dont know w hat Ill do. [font=century gothic][/font][color=darkblue][/color] Link to post Share on other sites
MassiveAtom Posted February 4, 2005 Share Posted February 4, 2005 Forgive, Understand, Compassion, Kindness. there's an acronym for it but I wont type it out. When the arguing starts, listen. When you think you understand his concerns, say "OH I see your point, I understand how you feel, and I don't blame you for feeling that way. " then ask yourself, would what he's asking be too much for me to do? Then, do something nice for him. and try to lighten the mood. HELL, Have sex with him. It's a great stress reliever. Link to post Share on other sites
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