Jay Posted April 9, 1999 Share Posted April 9, 1999 My girlfriend , who lives in a different state has been hanging around one of her guy friends alot lately. On a recent trip to see her she told me that we couldnt make love because she was sore. Then, she proceeded to tell me how she and her male friend had tried Extasy 2 nights prior. She claims that eventhough extasy is an aphrodesiac...that the soreness was caused from her "servicing" herself in a private room of the house. She has never lied to me before, and I really want to believe her, but I cant help but wonder. I could really use some good advice right now. Link to post Share on other sites
Thiamine Posted April 9, 1999 Share Posted April 9, 1999 My girlfriend , who lives in a different state has been hanging around one of her guy friends alot lately. On a recent trip to see her she told me that we couldnt make love because she was sore. Then, she proceeded to tell me how she and her male friend had tried Extasy 2 nights prior. She claims that eventhough extasy is an aphrodesiac...that the soreness was caused from her "servicing" herself in a private room of the house. She has never lied to me before, and I really want to believe her, but I cant help but wonder. I could really use some good advice right now. Jay, You should talk to her, especially concerning her drug use. Have you two made love before? If not, it could be an excuse that she's not ready. If you have, it's possible she just wasn't in the mood. It is true that Exstasy should not give her any soreness "down there" Like I said, talk to her about your concerns. Don't accuse her of anything, just tell her what you've been thinking and want an explanation. Hope this has helped Love, Thiamine Link to post Share on other sites
LoveAngel Posted April 9, 1999 Share Posted April 9, 1999 You should talk to her, especially concerning her drug use. Have you two made love before? If not, it could be an excuse that she's not ready. If you have, it's possible she just wasn't in the mood. It is true that Exstasy should not give her any soreness "down there" Like I said, talk to her about your concerns. Don't accuse her of anything, just tell her what you've been thinking and want an explanation. Hope this has helped Well, I agree that you should talk to her, but "ecstasy" is a drug commonly believed to induce sexual urges, at least in certain circles. While these myths are almost completely false, we won't look further into the issue. There are a number of web sites on the topic that can easily be found by doing a simple search on Yahoo. If I get a chance, I'll add them to the Links Directory. I think the soreness she's refering to in this case is related to masturbation, or self-stimulation. If she's having abnormal soreness, she should see a physician immediately. There are far larger issues here than whether or not you should trust her. She's using drugs, for whatever reason. That should set off some big signals right there that's she's not respecting her own body. Whether or not she slept with someone else is completely between you and her and the level of trust you have for each other. The only answer you're going to get is from her, so the question becomes do you or do you not trust her. Best wishes, LoveAngel Link to post Share on other sites
Worldly One Posted April 12, 1999 Share Posted April 12, 1999 My girlfriend , who lives in a different state has been hanging around one of her guy friends alot lately. On a recent trip to see her she told me that we couldnt make love because she was sore. Then, she proceeded to tell me how she and her male friend had tried Extasy 2 nights prior. She claims that eventhough extasy is an aphrodesiac...that the soreness was caused from her "servicing" herself in a private room of the house. She has never lied to me before, and I really want to believe her, but I cant help but wonder. I could really use some good advice right now. Jay, It appears that she really doesn't know why she is sore and could be a result of a gang bang with multiple lovers. Your best thing to do is stay as far away from her as possible. Don't call, write, or except this from her. She is obviously lieing to you. Don't believe a word, she's only trying to save your pride and feelings in that she has been unfaithful and sought out the moment to have SEX with someone or many others, hence her soreness. When she could have made love with you and wasn't thinking of you in the least by saving her sexual gratification for the both of you to enjoy. RUN FROM THIS ONE, if you know what's GOOD for you. Update you status Sincerely W.O Link to post Share on other sites
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