Tearyeyedgirl Posted February 5, 2005 Share Posted February 5, 2005 [font=arial][/font][color=blue][/color]I am 29, my hubby is 39. We met over the internet he is from UK. We spoke for 6 mos. until he came here and asked me to marry him. we got married, had a little boy and will be married 2 yrs in Sept. what is happening is that my hubby will stop for beers after work and not tell me and then promises not to do that again. I always know becuz he doesnt answr his cellphone etc. He says it is a cultural thing, the drinking... he drinks Every Friday night about a 12 pack, and sometimes sat. too. Thru the week at least 1 -2 times a month he will go after work and not tell me and come home at about 7pm after I have been waiting on him. 2x i had to take my little boy and go get him out of the bar because i was sick of worrying about him. When he drinks he says mean things, acts really cold and has done things on the internet like chat to other women. He says he wants me and the baby more than anything else.. but can never stop drinking completely. I am just so tired of being lied to. If he could go have a beer and come home it would be different.. but he can't stop at 1 or 2. And if I get mad he says he isnt killing anyone. My son adores him and when he isn't drinking I do too... but I can't live like this anymore... please help! Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted February 5, 2005 Share Posted February 5, 2005 What?! He says it's a cultural thing? So is being an a**hole a cultural thing too? Sorry, IMO this is a lame, lame, laaammmeee excuse for him to do what he wants. He may not be killing anyone, but he IS killing his relationship with you and his son, this isn't okay. Easier said then done.. but honestly how long are you willing to live like this? Let this guy know that what he is doing isn't okay with you and if he doesn't want to get some help and get this under control so you're BOTH happy that you're leaving his silly a**! THEN follow through. Link to post Share on other sites
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