schmopio Posted April 26, 2014 Share Posted April 26, 2014 I'm so confused/hurt. back story: So basically I got back together with an ex last year. He basically ended it with someone else lets call her girl#1. He said he wasn't attracted to her etc. So we tried again knowing he was single. I felt like he was making lame attempts and didn't feel like I fully trusted him so i ended it. Well I wanted to work on it, but he was basically saying he wasn't ready to commit. So we stopped talking. A few months later he is back (casually with girl #1). A few months after that he emails me --i still love you etc.. I had dinner with him, but again he acted differently in person than in email. less interested. I stayed away. Nights before Christmas girl#1 confront me in a bar. I was nice to her and naturally curious but basically shocked by the situation. She tells me she knows all about our relationship. She knows about an std(benign) i had. And that he is a sociopath and he hurt me in the same way he hurt her? My mind was literally blown. She also told me he HATEd ME. She knew we had dinner etc. Also I was drunk, so I gave my number to girl#1. She even texted me after saying she wants to be friends with me. because solidarity among woman? WTH? woke up the next day REALLY feeling bad/angry/violated about the situation, even though I invited it in. Why did she know so much?, why does he hate me and send me emails saying he still loves me? I texted him about it bc i was too upset. He said he could never hate me and that she made it up. I didn't text her or interact with her again. Flash forward to now. I find out through mutual friend on instagram that he has moved to my neighborhood & is hanging out with her again. But didn't she tell me he is a sociopath and she wants to move on? Did she do this to slam me down? Did he do this to slam me down? Am i wrong to feel wronged? I'm so confused. I want to not think about it but it seems I can't. Link to post Share on other sites
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