jabbzy64 Posted April 27, 2014 Share Posted April 27, 2014 Hi Guys... I originally posted on here last year about my toxic exgirlfriend. (Who I believed was BPD) She had split me black and I was still in love with her.. Well 3 months later she split me white again and I got hoovered back in. I guess I was looking for a quick bandaid fix. Nothing changed.. more accusations.. more drama.. and dumped by text 8 months later.. I WAS LIVING WITH HER! I tried to have a final talk with her but got the silent treatment ever since. wtf is with somebody like that?? Do they not know normal? Anyway.. been getting out of the fog now and realizing there is no future with this woman and been improving my own life. Anybody able to relate to a thing like this??? Link to post Share on other sites
learning_slowly Posted April 27, 2014 Share Posted April 27, 2014 I was with an ex who I got back with and then split again. Took friends, time and new activities to get over it. Some people have a need to want what they cannot have. Once they realise they can get you again, they lose the attraction. I hope she's changed for her sake. You're best of out of it. Enjoy the fact you are no longer a pawn to be played with. Just to show you that you can move on, I hadn't thought about that girl in years, and if we met now, I know she'd be the one showing the most interest, as I wouldn't have any. It's weird. I thought she was the one when I was younger. Our needs do change or our desire fades. Either way after a while, you'll realise how lucky you are. Link to post Share on other sites
melodicintention Posted April 27, 2014 Share Posted April 27, 2014 The only thing I can relate is when a guy pursing me acted similar to that I hit the road and never looked back. Why stay around and torture yourself dude? Not worth it. Link to post Share on other sites
Joangel Posted April 27, 2014 Share Posted April 27, 2014 I've seen it. Dated a guy who was clearly still in love with his ex who behaved like a mental patient. From what I was told and what I saw, she did everything but bash his head with a baseball bat. Still, he would make up excuses for the way she behaved. I came to the conclusion she didn't just become crazy, she must always been. Also, he must have somewhat liked it because he put up with forever. Maybe it was true love between them or he didn't think he desrved better. Soon enough I was out the door! FYI: last we spoke she was still finding ways to torment him and they had been broken up for over a year at that point. Link to post Share on other sites
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