btvdts Posted April 27, 2014 Share Posted April 27, 2014 I really didn't think I'd go 6 months without hearing from her. I thought at least she would want to see if I'm alive since I moved a 1000 miles away after the BU. I've come along way since the BU. sometimes I feel I should look on her FB and see that she has moved on(I think there was another guy) to get that final push for me to close that door. I haven't once checked her FB and everyone says don't do it, soni won't. its just so odd to me how someone can forget you so quickly. I wasnt a bad bf but I guess I wasn't enough. it's a sucky feeling knowing that there's a good chance I'll never hear from or see her again. she had two girls whom is miss terribly and always wonder how they are doing but I don't reach out Bc the past now. we were really great together and I miss the little family I had. I know someday I won't care, but it's very hard to actually want that even though it's what's best for me. I've never taken this long to recover from a heart break. I hope 6 months from now I can look back, smile at the memories and keep on smiling and instead of it saddening me. Link to post Share on other sites
smileforelena Posted April 27, 2014 Share Posted April 27, 2014 btvds it is actually a good thing that she hasnt contacted you in the 6 months. that probably contributed to how you are able to move on. but i get what you are saying its kinda hurts that someone you once shared of you with cant even say hi or just see if you are still breathing..its good that you have and will be staying away from her fb. there is really no reason to know if she has moved on or not. its one of those things thats not easy to accept but like u said its good for u. keep it up. im sure ull have the smile when u reminisce sooner than you think. Link to post Share on other sites
FredJones80 Posted April 27, 2014 Share Posted April 27, 2014 Thanks for the post btvdts, its similar to my situation, although I'm only 3 weeks in It bugs me too, I or she could die at some point and neither of us would know, someone who I've spent a considerable amount of my life with... quite depressing. Link to post Share on other sites
Alex_Stoner Posted April 28, 2014 Share Posted April 28, 2014 It bugs me too, I or she could die at some point and neither of us would know, someone who I've spent a considerable amount of my life with... quite depressing. I know that feeling and it sucks. Even if they hurt us or replaced us for someone else we still want to know if they are alive or how are they doing. They don't, and it's sad, but it help us to move on and find our way again. Link to post Share on other sites
redbaron005 Posted April 28, 2014 Share Posted April 28, 2014 I really didn't think I'd go 6 months without hearing from her. Me neither, six months of silence for me too - its actually really surprising. Stay strong btvdts. Link to post Share on other sites
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