could use some helpful hints...

[clueless]

hey everyone,

 

i'm a teen and have been going out with my b/f for about a year and a half now. we have a really good relationship na deverything is going okay. i was just wondering if anyone had any advice for keeping alittle spice in the relationship. i don't really want to do anything too sexual because him and i both agreed against it. i mean, we've done stuff, but we decided to stop before things went too far. i'm just trying to find some ideas for keeping some fun and variety in the realtionship. we agree that we have nothing to complain about, but i just want to keep some interest/"spice" in it.

 

well, any information/tips would be appreciated.

 

thanks in advance.

[ashesmum]

Well, if you both are content with the relationship, then why do you need to "spice" it up? If you've decided to stay at a certain stage sexually then I wouldn't suggest too much "spice". Unless you guys are very strong willed, one thing leads to another. And doing something like dancing for him might drive him up the wall, but is such a tease. Go out and do things together.

hey everyone, i'm a teen and have been going out with my b/f for about a year and a half now. we have a really good relationship na deverything is going okay. i was just wondering if anyone had any advice for keeping alittle spice in the relationship. i don't really want to do anything too sexual because him and i both agreed against it. i mean, we've done stuff, but we decided to stop before things went too far. i'm just trying to find some ideas for keeping some fun and variety in the realtionship. we agree that we have nothing to complain about, but i just want to keep some interest/"spice" in it. well, any information/tips would be appreciated.

 

thanks in advance.

[unnamed]

1) TALK. Sit down with him and have an in-depth discussion about your life, his life, and what you two think about things. Its amazing what you can learn about the other person, and problems you can work through!

 

PLAYFIGHT! (this is, by far, the best)

 

Go out to the movies.

 

Go for dinner.

 

Go for walks.

 

Play in the snow together.

 

Go swimming.

 

Go for drives.

 

Go dancing.

 

Play some games together.

 

Do stupid things together (my girlfriend and I just started doing this thing where we can only talk in questions... its great to see her laugh)

 

I mean, the possibilites are endless. Tune into each other's interests, and you can come up with a lot of things. Also, if Partner A has an interest in say, horses, and the Partner B doesn't, have the Partner B go horseback riding with the his/her partner!

 

I applaud you for holding back sexually. I wish I could have done the same, and I've realized my mistake, now I am trying to break away from it until we are married. You're lucky, very lucky.

 

I do honestly recommend playfighting to keep spice. Its absolutely so much fun!