colbag Posted April 29, 2014 Share Posted April 29, 2014 So its been a 2 months today since our original breakup, and 1 month today since we had a weekend where we "tried things again". This ended in a huge blow up fight. I went no contact with her for 2 weeks and then broke down and called her and asked her if she wanted to be friends. After our serious relationship all she said was it didn't matter to her if we were friends or not but whatever was going to be the least stressful. Ive noticed that ignoring her and not talking to her is the best but I still think about her constantly throughout the day and i still dream of her all the time. I removed her from my life, Ive realized my wrongs and Ive realized where our relationship went wrong, and Ive accepted it I think. Ive gone out with friends, reconnected with my family, and even have slept with a few girls. Nothing seems to be working and I feel like everything is slowly falling apart. Help me please. Link to post Share on other sites
learning_slowly Posted April 29, 2014 Share Posted April 29, 2014 There's no quick fix. There will be pain and the only benefit is you will be a stronger character once you have been through it. Look on the plus side, she could have stayed with you for another few years before realising she wanted something else. You're out of it. Now live your life. As soon as you think about her, think about something else. Thinking about her is pointless now. Link to post Share on other sites
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