untroubled313 Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 Ok so a week ago my wife left me Said I made her unhappy and was acting selfish an pushed her away which I did. So I've been doing everything to get.her back..at first she wouldn't even talk to me So I drove out to her mom's we talked and she wouldn't sign off on the lease to the house... Then she kissed me and hugged me and said just give me time to clear my head... At first she wouldn't text me.call me answer me nothing. For a week strait till I went out there.. Now today she texted me an we talked all day she initiated the talk.. Talked and laughed had a good time.. She was even bein sexual lol At one point she said I don't wanna leave you I just want the man I married back... So we talked a little more an I asked her if she would help me fix all this an she said I don't know if I can I don't have the answer for that it may be to late now I don't know... So I told her I would fix it an she said this happened before you fix it then mess up again I dunno if I can trust you.... She said I miss you so much and love you so much tho... I just don't know rite now.. So please some one give me advice? What do I do? Keep fighting for her pro e that I've changed? Just give her time? At first she wouldn't speak to me a week later we talk all day and night But she says she still dunno This girl is my heart and soul she means the world to me Link to post Share on other sites
thysecret Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 If i were you, i'll try every ways to get her back. Keep trying before she "give up" on you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
David87 Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 She's your wife, don't give up on her. Improve your self and make sure you wont make her unhappy ever again. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
martaldn Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 I agree with the above you have to fight for her, it will take time and lot of work from your side but if she is ready to give you another try then use it until the end! good luck 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author untroubled313 Posted April 30, 2014 Author Share Posted April 30, 2014 Thanks guys I just don't know what to do by everything she Has said it's all mixed Does it sound like I have a chance if I prove my self to her? Link to post Share on other sites
martaldn Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 she said she wants the man she married back.. and you said you havent been the best husband because you were selfish and pushed her away.. you need to work on that, and try not to make the same mistakes again. you need to prove her you have changed 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author untroubled313 Posted April 30, 2014 Author Share Posted April 30, 2014 So I shouldn't give up when she says She don't know if she wants us back? She'll either say I don't know or I can't trust you now Or I can't come see you yet, I love you so much And miss you so much But I don't know if I want this again? I'm so confused I don't know what to do :/ Link to post Share on other sites
martaldn Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 I dont think you should give up now. she is confused... maybe you should talk to her and then give her some space to think about what she really wants from you. tell her you are not giving up on her and then it will be up to her.. this is what i would do in your situation.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author untroubled313 Posted April 30, 2014 Author Share Posted April 30, 2014 Thank you very much! So it sounds like I may still have a chance? I can't give up on her my heart won't allow it I just don't wanna fight for something I can't have 1 Link to post Share on other sites
martaldn Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 I hope for your everything will be ok Link to post Share on other sites
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