ratzskinakie Posted February 6, 2005 Share Posted February 6, 2005 Girls, if you say to a guy that he is cute, what do you mean? I know that you mean that he is "cute", but the thing is, sometimes it just reminds me of a girl telling a baby that he/she is cute. You know what im saying?. Because I get that from girls alot, when I meet new girls, sometimes when I laugh, talk or whatever, very commonly they will say something like "your cute", even when im in the middle of talking. and im 19 years old. Even girls that may be out of my league will say that Im cute, "girls who are taller than me, a year or 2 older than me, and very hot" and I wonder, "hey, if they think im cute, do i have a chance if I ask them out now?" because I do notice that even though I dont have the"sexy body" and im about 5'6, I do have a "pretty face", even many will say they love my accent, even guys say they wish they had my accent." So girls... What im really asking is... if there is a guy, and you think he is cute, but you WOULD'NT date him, would still tell him that he is cute? Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted February 7, 2005 Share Posted February 7, 2005 Would I tell someone OR think that someone is cute but still not want to date them... Yes I wouldn't take it as anything *Bad* when people tell you're cute.. and the accent.. LOL I love accents personally... Bottomline.. IF YOU have an interest in someone regardless if you're cute or what not.. then have some confidence and ask her out.. the worst she could say is no.. BUT on the other hand, she might say yes;) Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted February 7, 2005 Share Posted February 7, 2005 CUTE = good looking, attractive, handsome when it comes from a woman. Link to post Share on other sites
Lil Honey Posted February 7, 2005 Share Posted February 7, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale CUTE = good looking, attractive, handsome when it comes from a woman. I disagree. Being "cute" to me means anything from being little-boy-cute to being funny/silly. Being cute to me can mean that your gestures, words or expressions make me smile. It's sort of a carefree thing, I suppose. Attractive means that a man has good features. He doesn't have to be a guy in Cosmo. He can be average, but there is just something about him that attracts me, draws me to him (most likely his smile or his eyes). Handsome means that a man is good-looking overall. IMHO, NONE of these things will make me fall all over a man, because when it comes right down to it, if he doesn't have the right attitude, I won't be interested, no matter WHAT he looks like. "Beauty is only skin deep." Link to post Share on other sites
FolderWife Posted February 7, 2005 Share Posted February 7, 2005 Women can be nice looking, pretty, beautiful, or gorgeous Men can be nice looking, handsome, cute, or sexy. It's just one of the terms for "good looking". We can't say that you're pretty, so we say you're cute...or hot Link to post Share on other sites
kanga Posted February 7, 2005 Share Posted February 7, 2005 what if a girl is called cute by a guy? what does that mean? Link to post Share on other sites
Hund1976 Posted February 7, 2005 Share Posted February 7, 2005 I would say its a good thing, I would call a girl I was attracted to cute. Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted February 7, 2005 Share Posted February 7, 2005 Cute = you're probably pleasing to their eye. Link to post Share on other sites
Moose Posted February 7, 2005 Share Posted February 7, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale CUTE = good looking, attractive, handsome when it comes from a woman. How long have you been a woman? I think it depends more on how it's said than what is said. Link to post Share on other sites
clynn Posted February 8, 2005 Share Posted February 8, 2005 Cute is what I say and what I think when I really, really really am attracted to someone! From me that is a top notch compliment. Can't beat cute in my books. It means hot, charming, unassuming.....yummy! Link to post Share on other sites
Lonestar Posted February 8, 2005 Share Posted February 8, 2005 Yep, same for me. When I tell a guy he's cute, it means that I'm very attracted to him. I'm not going to tell him he's hot b/c that sounds too foward to me, and saying "you're a good looking guy" sounds like something I'd say to a friend. "Cute" for me means "c'mere baby!" Lots of my female friends use that word in the same context. Link to post Share on other sites
HotCaliGirl Posted February 8, 2005 Share Posted February 8, 2005 Well, my boyfriend is 36 and handsome/cute/hot etc. with very good features. I oftentimes tell him he's cute as a compliment instead of using other words to describe him and I don't mean it in a childish/boyish term of endearment. I think women use the word cute to describe a man they find both good looking and attractive. On the other hand, when my boyfriend calls me "cutey" I don't like it because I think he is seeing me in a non-adult light and not sexy, even though I know he does, similar to how you are feeling! I think the tall out-of-your-league women who call you cute mean that you are sexually attractive to them and would go out if you asked them to. They are in fact IN your league but you don't realize it. It is safer for a woman to say cute than hot or handsome which might set them up for disappointment since that is not as vague in what they actually mean and doesn't feel as safe to say to someone, especially if they do not know you well. Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted February 8, 2005 Share Posted February 8, 2005 Hey, it's better than "adorable". Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted February 8, 2005 Share Posted February 8, 2005 Originally posted by tiki Hey, it's better than "adorable". OR Worse.. Precious Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted February 8, 2005 Share Posted February 8, 2005 Originally posted by Merin Precious LMAO! I hate that! No really, I do! Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted February 8, 2005 Share Posted February 8, 2005 Originally posted by tiki LMAO! I hate that! No really, I do! LOL Imagine your hubby telling you, you're precious.. Link to post Share on other sites
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