mtnbiker3000 Posted May 4, 2014 Share Posted May 4, 2014 Came across an old pic of my ex on my phone. Just one... Just like I remembered... she is so hot. So beautiful... To be honest, I have never even met a more beautiful woman, let alone dated or had sex with one. I wonder if I will ever meet one again like her... Hmmmm.... Link to post Share on other sites
organizedchaos Posted May 4, 2014 Share Posted May 4, 2014 Came across an old pic of my ex on my phone. Just one... Just like I remembered... she is so hot. So beautiful... To be honest, I have never even met a more beautiful woman, let alone dated or had sex with one. I wonder if I will ever meet one again like her... Hmmmm.... I did too tonight. Same thoughts. And then I reformatted the memory card. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Author mtnbiker3000 Posted May 4, 2014 Author Share Posted May 4, 2014 I did too tonight. Same thoughts. And then I reformatted the memory card. Hahahaha. Yeah. I was going to delete that sh*t, but I want to keep it. It was a nice pic. She is hot as sh*t. So beautiful. Can't believe she was even with me??? Think I will download it to my CPU, then delete it off my phone... Link to post Share on other sites
organizedchaos Posted May 4, 2014 Share Posted May 4, 2014 Hahahaha. Yeah. I was going to delete that sh*t, but I want to keep it. It was a nice pic. She is hot as sh*t. So beautiful. Can't believe she was even with me??? Think I will download it to my CPU, then delete it off my phone... All my phone pics are automatically backed up to the cloud. So if I really want to find it, I can. But readily available on my phone, not anymore, unfortunately. Link to post Share on other sites
ja123 Posted May 4, 2014 Share Posted May 4, 2014 What happened? Why did you break up? Are you with someone new now? Link to post Share on other sites
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted May 4, 2014 Share Posted May 4, 2014 Hahahaha. Yeah. I was going to delete that sh*t, but I want to keep it. It was a nice pic. She is hot as sh*t. So beautiful. Can't believe she was even with me??? Think I will download it to my CPU, then delete it off my phone... Just delete it. Doesn't mean anything Link to post Share on other sites
Author mtnbiker3000 Posted May 4, 2014 Author Share Posted May 4, 2014 Just delete it. Doesn't mean anything She just looks so cute. Such a random pic. Just don't want to delete it straight away... I mean I know she's takin' another guys c*ck (*barf), but I sill cherish our time together, and this pic is a nice representationl... Link to post Share on other sites
Candy_Pants Posted May 4, 2014 Share Posted May 4, 2014 Remind yourself why you broke up in the first place. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author mtnbiker3000 Posted May 4, 2014 Author Share Posted May 4, 2014 (edited) Remind yourself why you broke up in the first place. Cause we both have issues... Big difference is... I am addressing mine!!! Edited May 4, 2014 by mtnbiker3000 1 Link to post Share on other sites
malin819 Posted May 4, 2014 Share Posted May 4, 2014 I'll be blunt and honest here...my ex broke up with me 2 1/2 weeks ago to go to one of my friends. But I have been seeig a hot chick and spent the evening with her There will be someone else man.. Link to post Share on other sites
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted May 4, 2014 Share Posted May 4, 2014 She just looks so cute. Such a random pic. Just don't want to delete it straight away... I mean I know she's takin' another guys c*ck (*barf), but I sill cherish our time together, and this pic is a nice representationl... Yeah and your point? You arent with her anymore. Why keep it? To look at and get sad every time? Sounds pretty dumb to me. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
mummyjonno Posted May 4, 2014 Share Posted May 4, 2014 What is the first things people advise on here when a break up has happened. Remove from Facebook Delete number/block it Delete photos Get rid of "stuff" And the best one of all - go no contact. You are just going to torture yourself with that picture, you wanna keep it? Go ahead. However when you look at it, remember the "good times" and then feel miserable. That will be your own fault. Don't torture yourself over this, she's clearly not too worried about you if she's hopping on someone else's winkie already! Link to post Share on other sites
Haydn Posted May 4, 2014 Share Posted May 4, 2014 nothing wrong with keeping the odd pic. Good times are nice to remember. That's human. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted May 4, 2014 Share Posted May 4, 2014 nothing wrong with keeping the odd pic. Good times are nice to remember. That's human. If he is feeling what he feeling right now, then there isnt a reason to keep it. All its going to do is make him upset. Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted May 4, 2014 Share Posted May 4, 2014 There are plenty of other hot girls on the internet to fulfill whatever urge you are getting from that pic of your ex. Just delete man. Link to post Share on other sites
somecamel Posted May 4, 2014 Share Posted May 4, 2014 I haven't been able to delete the photos for two reasons. 1. I can't bring myself to even look at them to delete them:P 2. She was a part of my life for 7 years and when I'm over her I want to be able to remember the memories. Just because we split, it doesn't mean that I have to delete her from your life forever. I hope in the future I can look at the photos and the memories and be happy that I spent some of my life with her. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
FredJones80 Posted May 4, 2014 Share Posted May 4, 2014 I haven't been able to delete the photos for two reasons. 1. I can't bring myself to even look at them to delete them:P 2. She was a part of my life for 7 years and when I'm over her I want to be able to remember the memories. Just because we split, it doesn't mean that I have to delete her from your life forever. I hope in the future I can look at the photos and the memories and be happy that I spent some of my life with her. This is becoming a crux for me too. I have photos of 10 years, I don't look at them because I know they would upset me. The problem is, if/when I get with someone else, I'm going to have to kind of delete them because someone else wouldn't be too happy about me having photos of my ex? Feels a bit odd to think at some point I have to wipe 10 years worth of photos and my life, what if I spend the next 10 with someone and break up? I'm going to get to the end of my life and not have a single photo of my history. Link to post Share on other sites
somecamel Posted May 4, 2014 Share Posted May 4, 2014 This is becoming a crux for me too. I have photos of 10 years, I don't look at them because I know they would upset me. The problem is, if/when I get with someone else, I'm going to have to kind of delete them because someone else wouldn't be too happy about me having photos of my ex? Feels a bit odd to think at some point I have to wipe 10 years worth of photos and my life, what if I spend the next 10 with someone and break up? I'm going to get to the end of my life and not have a single photo of my history. I don't think you have to delete them, whoever is the future partner has to respect that you have had a past aswell, I'm sure they have. The memories are what have made us who we are today. It's not like we're going to go through them and show them to a new partner, no point in that. To be fair all the physical photos I had of us two together we're ripped up and put in her stuf, petty maybe but it made me feel better at the time. All the other photos are on an external drive of mine so I don't have to see them:) 2 Link to post Share on other sites
mummyjonno Posted May 4, 2014 Share Posted May 4, 2014 I don't think you have to delete them, whoever is the future partner has to respect that you have had a past aswell, I'm sure they have. The memories are what have made us who we are today. It's not like we're going to go through them and show them to a new partner, no point in that. To be fair all the physical photos I had of us two together we're ripped up and put in her stuf, petty maybe but it made me feel better at the time. All the other photos are on an external drive of mine so I don't have to see them:) Future partners will respect that everyone has a past. However if you have photos of your ex knocking around because you can't bare to rid yourself of them 1 - you ain't ready to date until you can do that. 2 - a women can understand a man has a past, but when they past is still lurking new girl then becomes to third wheel to your old relationship. No woman with any sort of self worth will say "hey honey it's fine that you have pictures of your ex on your phone" we don't live in lala land Link to post Share on other sites
KaliLove Posted May 4, 2014 Share Posted May 4, 2014 Came across an old pic of my ex on my phone. Just one... Just like I remembered... she is so hot. So beautiful... To be honest, I have never even met a more beautiful woman, let alone dated or had sex with one. I wonder if I will ever meet one again like her... Hmmmm.... Hopefully you won't meet anyone like her again..hopefully you'll meet someone who doesn't dump you next time! I randomly found my ex's pic yesterday too..when I opened a book it fell out. I am much better looking than he is, so HA!!! He can go suck a rotten egg! Link to post Share on other sites
LostConfused123 Posted May 4, 2014 Share Posted May 4, 2014 Hey Mtnbiker, I have no advice but just wanted to say sorry for your pain. I found an old pic a while back on my laptop that I forgot about. I almost barfed. LOL! it's weird, I'm absolutely TERRIFIED of him now. Best of luck, whatever you decide. You know what's best for you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
LostConfused123 Posted May 4, 2014 Share Posted May 4, 2014 Oh, just to clarify "terrified" because of the painful nightmare I went through and don't even like thinking about it. . . . he's not a psycho or anything. But he's not perfect either, I mean, he let me go right. The fool! Link to post Share on other sites
Author mtnbiker3000 Posted May 4, 2014 Author Share Posted May 4, 2014 I haven't been able to delete the photos for two reasons. 1. I can't bring myself to even look at them to delete them:P 2. She was a part of my life for 7 years and when I'm over her I want to be able to remember the memories. Just because we split, it doesn't mean that I have to delete her from your life forever. I hope in the future I can look at the photos and the memories and be happy that I spent some of my life with her. I agree with this. I have several folders on my computer loaded with pics of us. I just don't go near them. I also have 1 desk drawer filled with stuff from her. I just don't open it. I never look at this stuff now, but I don't want to throw it all away either. Hell, I still have notes I used to pass in high school. She was a cutie. Wonder what she's up to?? 3 Link to post Share on other sites
LostConfused123 Posted May 4, 2014 Share Posted May 4, 2014 I agree with this. I have several folders on my computer loaded with pics of us. I just don't go near them. I also have 1 desk drawer filled with stuff from her. I just don't open it. I never look at this stuff now, but I don't want to throw it all away either. Hell, I still have notes I used to pass in high school. She was a cutie. Wonder what she's up to?? I totally understand this. I'm a sentimental fool! LOL!!! I have all kinds of things saved that I just can't bear to throw out. I even have fall leaves from Central park stashed from a trip an ex from way back and I took. It's nice to open that box once in a while. Kinda like a time machine. Of course, it will be a while before I can look at anything that reminds me of "him" Someday, I'll look back on him and smile. Just not anytime soon. Link to post Share on other sites
BC1980 Posted May 4, 2014 Share Posted May 4, 2014 I have 2 bags in my closet with my ex's stuff. They are way in the back, so I never see them. It's such a odd thing to have been so close to someone, and, now, he's just someone who is in his own category. Does that make sense? It's hard to put into words, but I'm also terrified if my ex in a way. I actually just deleted his number from my phone, and it hurt more than I thought it would. I still know the number by heart, but just that simple act of deleting it hurt. I keep so many numbers in my phone of people I rarely talk to, and he doesn't even make that list anymore. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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