Silver93 Posted May 4, 2014 Share Posted May 4, 2014 First off I am sorry if I am repeating myself but I felt like needed to vent. I am a 20 year old male and I have been trying to connect with females for the last 8-10 years. I have never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl. I have been interested in girls since I was young which makes it even more difficult to deal with my lack of attention. I live in a small town badly hit by the recession so there is little to do and hardly any chances of social interaction with girls. There are some girls that I like but I don't have the courage to talk to them. I suffer from social anxiety so making initial contact can be kinda hard. I know you might not be able to give me much advice but it does help to get it out of my system. Thanks for reading. Link to post Share on other sites
Omei Posted May 5, 2014 Share Posted May 5, 2014 You're your own problem, Find a way to get the courage. If you dont talk to girls nothing will change If you do talk to girls the outcome may not be what you want but at least it's a step forward. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
shet Posted May 5, 2014 Share Posted May 5, 2014 You already know the answer, you mentioned it. Get the **** out of that town and move to a metropolitan area. Trust me: life is very different in a city. Go to college there. Make a couple friends at college and go out and see what happens. Life will open up and you're young. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Omei Posted May 5, 2014 Share Posted May 5, 2014 If he's only 20 I doubt he has the funding to just move where ever he pleases. And OP I highly doubt you've been trying to connect with girls since the age of 10-13. You're young and apart of the millions of guys out there that haven't had a gf at 20 and thats totally normal. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Silver93 Posted May 5, 2014 Author Share Posted May 5, 2014 Thanks for the advice. Much appreciated. It helps to talk about it anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
Teraskas Posted May 5, 2014 Share Posted May 5, 2014 Even if a social situation with a woman takes place, just walk up to her and strike up a conversation. (When possible ofcourse.) Honestly, the worst thing she can say is "No". If it doesn't lead to anything, it still counts as a learning experience. Plus guys get rejected a lot more than women, it's normal. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
AdrianCrawley Posted May 5, 2014 Share Posted May 5, 2014 We've all been through this, young fella. I can give you some advice: 1. Fix whatever is bothering you about yourself(looks, clothes, whatever). 2. Life can't be forced, when you stop giving a damn things always go for the better. 3. Don't try to be something you're not. It always backfires. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
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