Hope4thefuture Posted May 6, 2014 Share Posted May 6, 2014 I have been in denial about having to move. I don't want to move. I like my house. I like my neighborhood. Even though staying in my current home we shared as a married couple brings back some memories, I still love this house. I tried to stay here as long as possible for my 3 boys. I thought just hearing the news of our separation was hard enough. I didn't want to uproot them from the home they know and feel safe in. They see their dad a couple nights during the week and every other weekend. The boys have a hard time there because it is a small space. They can't run around and there are no toys there. Just tv and video games. At my house they have their own space, a backyard to play in, and more things to do. I am afraid of losing that. My parents offered to let me stay with them and save some money. Then go find a place I can afford when I am ready. It is a nice offer but I don't know if I can go back and live with my parents again. Plus my boys will be living there too. I am just so angry at this situation. First my STBX tells me he doesn't love me anymore. He is dating someone else only months after moving out. So I lose my family, my husband, my best friend, and now I am going to lose my house. I am just so tired off everything turning out badly. When does it start getting better? I don't know if I should just try to find some small affordable apartment or townhouse. Or do I save up some money and find a decent place for my boys and myself at the expense of losing my sanity living with my parents again? Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted May 6, 2014 Share Posted May 6, 2014 It depends on how fast you can sell your current house & find a suitable shelter. If you have to live with your parents for a very short time ( < 1-3 months) your sanity should be intact, especially knowing the situation has an end date. be thankful that you have a fall back position just in case. Link to post Share on other sites
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