spookysonata Posted May 12, 2014 Share Posted May 12, 2014 So being a terrible friend is an acceptable price to pay, because you love her husband? Maybe she loves him too. Why does your affair take precedence over their marriage? You sound like you would rather she just disappeared. Honestly, there are several people who would be negatively affected by this situation, and you don't seem concerned at all. Link to post Share on other sites
Owl Posted May 12, 2014 Share Posted May 12, 2014 (edited) Because I love him, and he loves me. I'd Because I love him, and he loves me. We are going to end up together, me and him, sooner rather than later. If I made an ultimatum he would choose to leave but I haven't and so right now he is comfortable and is staying. He does love her. But without a sexual relationship the connection is lacking to say the least. Makes it sound again like it's just about sex. There is no JUST about it, that's a huge part of the human experience and it's important in a relationship. Does your husband know about the bolded part above? Where does he fit into that statement? And he's in complete agreemant with your feelings in this? I'm also curious...you'd mentioned that you and your H were interested in making 'bonds' with other people. Did OM's wife agree to that too? Given your statement above...where does this bond stand when compared to your bond to your husband...and is your husband both aware and comfortable of that comparison as well? Edited May 12, 2014 by Owl Link to post Share on other sites
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