"They won't know, unless you tell them"

[No Limit]

If the people in breakup-situations absolutely fail at thinking and analyzing circumstances, well, of course chances are the advice you'll receive won't be right!

 

Who knows how many guys who complained on this board how "controlling their silly GF is just because I wanted to meet up with friends", and with friends they were talking about another girl, were given the advice to break up with said 'controlling GF'.

We can't look though the screen and see who you really are. We only have what you write to us.

 

And 'follow your instinct'? Most people's first instinct would be calling their exes over and over, crying at their door, wanting to prove their everlasting love and whatever else would give their pride and self-esteem a terrible kick in the guts. They'd literally roll through the mud but wouldn't receive much more than pity for that.

 

But you're probably just in the fancy-romantic happiness because your head tells you that finally "things are good again". Time will tell.

[BrokenHeartedSavior]

The only way technology could have manipulated your relationship is if you only used texts and emails and never had a real life conversation with him. So why didn't you just pick up the phone and clear up the nonsense once technology started manipulating things? (I'm guessing you are referring to the hacking and confusion arising from messed up or diverted emails or something? Again thanks for not being clear and honest about your circumstances.)

and something as simple as someone getting hacked caused the two of you to stop "talking" for a year and a half.

 

 

"Eh...I'm not sure what to make of this. Its not even a real life relationship"

 

"Sounds to me like you have never even met the guy."

 

And to the OP, THIS is exactly why I've decided to steer clear of this board and act on real life. OP, do you agree with this statement? Lol. Brokenheartetsavior, outta here... Carry on in misery people. Best wishes.

[jbelle6]

The dumper knows the dumpee is still in love with them and will be devastated most times. They KNOW. That's why they usually have checked out weeks or months before the end before they get the courage to actually do the dumping.

 

By the time they say it's over I feel it's usually too late for any begging or pleading to work. Have you ever been the dumper? I have, and I know I found the begging annoying and pathetic and awkward.

 

I also feel that if they do take you back it's out of guilt and you will usually end up breaking up again.

 

I was dumped 3 days ago and went immediately to no contact. I got a breadcrumb saying he misses talking to me, NOT that he misses me so I will ignore that as well.

 

 

HE DEVASTATED ME, he wants another chance, let him f-ing beg.