Do I have a shot at getting her back???

[Rplau]

Hey everyone! I'm new here. Yesterday i broke up with my first love, after a lot of time of being single, and fooling around with girls.

I had to convince her mom i was a nice guy, because she saw me making out with her, it took quite a lot of time, (around 3 months) but in the end, we started perfectly, it was the best relationship ever, until april when we celebrated our first anniversary (The 24th). Since then, everything went downhill. We were really tense (We don't even know why), and yesterday, we finally broke up. I was willing to give everything to make it work out, I mean, i really love her. And i know she does love me too. She cried like crazy, i'd never seen her cry that way, and when i asked her why should we break up if we were that sad, she told me that it was a lot of stuff (Me going to college in two months, the constant fighting, etc.) But i could see in her eyes she wasn't sure about this, either.

So, i told her that if she still felt really bad, i'd wait for her two weeks, and she accepted.

 

When i got to my house, I received this message:

 

First I want to thank you for making me so happy for a year , a year and 13 days.

For showing me so much , for all the times we had , for all the calls, long and short messages, all the pictures we have , all the laughter , jealousy, the fights, the trust became very great among us, for all the hugs and kisses, for everything.

Unfortunately things began to get difficult, and ours stopped being a healthy relationship.

Sometimes things just change and anything else you want to follow , if not already given and are starting to force things, you can not

 

Today , May 7th was the last day I was with you, I hugged you , I kissed you.

 

If we made ​​this decision it was because things were already very tense . We've talked several times about it and said that the two were going to put more effort , apparently that did not happen and I think we both finally agreed that was best.

 

I know, I'm sure you 'll find someone better and that person will be the luckiest to have you.

Like I said , to do this does not mean that what I feel for you has changed , you know that I love you with all my heart and I want you to know that no other relationship i have in the future is going to be as special as it was with you, with my first love. I also want you to know that i'll always be here, even if you don't want to know anything about me.

 

Please do not do anything stupid , like being the person you were before. Perhaps that'll make it easier to get through this but you should know that ultimately all you 're doing is hurting yourself trying to hide everything.

 

The truth is, i don't know what's going to happen after this. Maybe we'll get back together, maybe not. Maybe i'll see you at college and everything will be just like the old times. Meanwhile, I have two weeks to think and see how I am , if I'm really convinced that doing this was the best thing .

 

Finally I want you to know that I will never forget you because, I'll never forget how important you were to me. I'll never stop being so grateful to you for treating me better than a queen, for treating me above what i deserved.

 

I Do not know if this is a final goodbye but for now it is. Give me a chance to say this one last time , I love you my love and thanks for all fatty , you are the best .

 

 

These two weeks are oxygen for me, really, we're each other's first love, first everything. What do you think? Does she look interested in getting back? Will the No Contact Rule work with this situation?

Thank you for admitting me into your community, you guys.

[Marco Valerio]

For what I can read and understand from her message, I think she was already out of the relationship before you knew. She seems very confident in her message, the words she uses are very clear. I think she was struggling with the relationship much before your first anniversary. You should go NC for a while and see how she approaches you. I'm sorry my friend, lots of luck.

[d0nnivain]

You two are in transition. You are growing up & leaving childhood behind. Unfortunately one of the most common causalities of that growth is often a 1st love.

 

 

Since you are leaving for college in 2 months & that will be filled with all sorts of new people & new opportunities, this break up was more inevitable then you can see.

 

 

Be grateful for the wonderful times you did share. Have a fun summer & get ready for the adventure that is college. I promise by Thanksgiving break you will be at peace with this change.

[d0nnivain]

double post whoops