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Congratulations on your first dating experience complete with break up!

 

Now, you know you are attractive to any man of any age, you're getting closer to knowing the kind of man you'd like to date, you've found out how much older you're comfortable with, what a gut / awkward feeling feels like and that your intuition is usually right, you probably now know what 'type' of man you're into.

 

I'll say keep on keeping on, there's lots to experience yet and mistakes are only there to tune you up. Another one will come - no need to feel rejected. It just wasn't right for you both and you'll soon recover.

 

One thing I must add though is not to take things you read in forums like these personally. I saw you bend over backwards trying to prove yourself and defend your choices as though they had any say in your life. For all you know, they're there sitting at home, feeling worthless because they've been unceremoniously discarded, constantly unwanted and the only thing they can do is try to make you feel a little of what they're feeling..

 

Enjoy your dating, don't be too much in a hurry to go too deep. You'll also learn that sex - esp for a 'good' girl, leaves a mark on you and makes you feel things for people you wouldn't normally do. So choose wisely who you give it away to.

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