Proto Posted February 8, 2005 Share Posted February 8, 2005 Alright here's the deal. My girlfriend will be flying in to see me this Friday. This will be the 4th time we'll have been with each other in the 7 months we've been together. She lives about 1300 miles away from me. Anyways her brother was supposed to take her to the airport...cool. Until he finds out that he has to work that day so he can't take her. So then OUT OF NOWHERE, her ex bf offers to take her to the airport knowing that she's flying here to see me. Now...this bugs me a bit. Because she does not like him at all and they are not on speaking terms. Yet he ALL of a sudden volunteers to take her to the airport. Now, I want you guys to know that this is not an issue of me just being jealous because it's her ex. It's really an issue of her safety. I don't trust any man that would just all of a sudden volunteer to do something for a woman that he's had no contact with whatsoever. She's sweared up and down that he is not a dangerous person and that he wouldn't do anything like that...but I still have really ill feelings about this. Also, she contacted everyone else in her family to see if they could help her out, and no one could. So my question is, should I take my girlfriend's word for it and just let everything go on? Or should I step in and pay for her to get transportation to the airport myself. I don't want my girlfriend to think that I don't trust her because I REALLY do. But I certainly don't trust her ex-bf at all. Link to post Share on other sites
Numb Posted February 8, 2005 Share Posted February 8, 2005 If it makes you feel better offer her the money to pay for a taxi or shuttle. Thats the thing though you never know what a person can do, and at the same time he may just be offering to be nice. Link to post Share on other sites
WalkingTall Posted February 8, 2005 Share Posted February 8, 2005 You mentioned that they are not on speaking terms.... then why does the ex know? Is there a child involved there so that he HAS to know? Ex's are always dangerous in our own minds... especially with LTR. You know at one point there was something there, but you have to think that she is with you now. That is her past, and I am sure that there is nothing to worry about. I would offer to pay for a shuttle, but I can guarantee she would take the free ride, before feeling guilty about taking your money. Link to post Share on other sites
NTB Posted February 8, 2005 Share Posted February 8, 2005 i'd say offer her the money for the transportation...just let her know you would feel better if she takes it.....but what ever she chooses you have to be cool with it Link to post Share on other sites
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