Author tornapart2002 Posted May 15, 2014 Author Share Posted May 15, 2014 tornapart, by the way - apologies for ranting on about this. I know this is your thread - I got carried away. I will not post another long one all about my issues. If I do, I'll start a fresh thread.... Fellini, feel free to PM me, if you wish. Thanks. James. No worries. That's what happens here...conversations spin off. Link to post Share on other sites
beatcuff Posted May 16, 2014 Share Posted May 16, 2014 Actually, it's usually the WS that claims the crown of martyrdom, very common for cheaters to cry poor me my spouse is so mean and not fulfilling my needs but i'm too weak to get a divorce because I'm a martyr for my kids. i must be using the wrong dictionary on martyr. WS do attempt to justify their behavior: BS was mean, uncaring, didn't understand, etc. BS: i did everything for WS, WS ruined my life, woe is me. and in this case (and for the countless responders): AP owes me something. which siphons energy from the real issue M and WS. A divorce....most WS's would rather cheat. back to the dictionary: by definition of course WS cheat or they would NOT be WS or cheaters. the question remains: would it be alright to get a GF the next day (hint: they were waiting/it was a done deal). A divorce would mean setting their spouse free to get that "gf" or "bf" too. to this i agree. WS are testing the waters/having some fun. and they are certainly at fault for not using this effort within the M. Link to post Share on other sites
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