Natsume21 Posted May 14, 2014 Share Posted May 14, 2014 He's kind of short. And by kind of I mean very. I'm pretty tall for a chick (5'9)..I'm 2 or 3 inches taller than he is. I've only ever dated men over 6' before. I'm not entirely sure I can deal with that...I haven't decided yet. I don't want to feel like the Jolly Green Giant. Oh well..going to bar trivia night and seeing the other dude tonight (he is over 6'..and he's a nerd..I love me some nerds!). We shall see! And the saga continues, ha! I'm 5 ft. 7 and I take offense to this! lol. Link to post Share on other sites
Strength in Healing Posted May 14, 2014 Share Posted May 14, 2014 He's kind of short. And by kind of I mean very. I'm pretty tall for a chick (5'9)..I'm 2 or 3 inches taller than he is. I've only ever dated men over 6' before. I'm not entirely sure I can deal with that...I haven't decided yet. I don't want to feel like the Jolly Green Giant. Oh well..going to bar trivia night and seeing the other dude tonight (he is over 6'..and he's a nerd..I love me some nerds!). We shall see! And the saga continues, ha! I'm 5'11 still up for the date? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
namastemeow Posted May 14, 2014 Share Posted May 14, 2014 This is actually backed up by psychology, she isn't making this up. One of the worst things to do in an argument is to tell a woman or man to calm down, as it invalidates the way they feel. The proper way to handle it is to let them express their emotion and not demean. This is so true! Link to post Share on other sites
namastemeow Posted May 14, 2014 Share Posted May 14, 2014 Rule no. 10 in the "Things guys must never do with a woman" Argue against her emotions. And what are the no 1 to 9? Link to post Share on other sites
Natsume21 Posted May 14, 2014 Share Posted May 14, 2014 We really should have an LS forum for dating. Well, dating each other. Link to post Share on other sites
Strength in Healing Posted May 14, 2014 Share Posted May 14, 2014 We really should have an LS forum for dating. Well, dating each other. Lol all the people from the breakup forum would swarm the date section. Might as well name the forum get your rebounds. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Natsume21 Posted May 14, 2014 Share Posted May 14, 2014 And what are the no 1 to 9? 1. Never say "I'm busy." when she's upset. 2. Even if you're right, never say to a woman you're right. 3. Try not to talk over a woman. It's annoying. 4. Women are in control. Don't try to argue otherwise. 5. When you say something stupid, never say "I'm sorry" It makes you look weak. 6. Chocolate is not ALWAYS the answer. 7. Don't believe a random list of things from a stranger. 8. Don't be a nice guy to a woman. Be a respectable, true, and strong person for her. 9. Not every woman is going to like you. Appreciate the ones that do. Link to post Share on other sites
Natsume21 Posted May 14, 2014 Share Posted May 14, 2014 Lol all the people from the breakup forum would swarm the date section. Might as well name the forum get your rebounds. EXTRA! EXTRA! REBOUND ABOUT IT! But I'd have to decline. I'm kinda seeing someone, an older woman(Me LOVES older women.) Link to post Share on other sites
namastemeow Posted May 14, 2014 Share Posted May 14, 2014 1. Never say "I'm busy." when she's upset. 2. Even if you're right, never say to a woman you're right. 3. Try not to talk over a woman. It's annoying. 4. Women are in control. Don't try to argue otherwise. 5. When you say something stupid, never say "I'm sorry" It makes you look weak. 6. Chocolate is not ALWAYS the answer. 7. Don't believe a random list of things from a stranger. 8. Don't be a nice guy to a woman. Be a respectable, true, and strong person for her. 9. Not every woman is going to like you. Appreciate the ones that do. I agree. haha most men thinks "im sorry" is the best answer. Take not, gentlemen. Its not! Link to post Share on other sites
Strength in Healing Posted May 14, 2014 Share Posted May 14, 2014 Sadly, I think the key to maintaining a relationship is to be inattentive, rude occasionally, and selfish. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Natsume21 Posted May 14, 2014 Share Posted May 14, 2014 Sadly, I think the key to maintaining a relationship is to be inattentive, rude occasionally, and selfish. That only works for young immature women(well immaturity has no age) I'm seeing an older woman, and though I am not smothering her, she respects and is attracted to my comedy and passion But I think, in all reality, she thinks I'm super cute looking. Link to post Share on other sites
Strength in Healing Posted May 14, 2014 Share Posted May 14, 2014 That only works for young immature women(well immaturity has no age) I'm seeing an older woman, and though I am not smothering her, she respects and is attracted to my comedy and passion But I think, in all reality, she thinks I'm super cute looking. You are the type I'd be friends with. What state are you from brother? How old is she in relation to you? lol Link to post Share on other sites
Natsume21 Posted May 14, 2014 Share Posted May 14, 2014 You are the type I'd be friends with. What state are you from brother? How old is she in relation to you? lol I'm 23. She's 38. Math says that's 15 years. Link to post Share on other sites
mtnbiker3000 Posted May 14, 2014 Share Posted May 14, 2014 (edited) Sadly, I think the key to maintaining a relationship is to be inattentive, rude occasionally, and selfish. It's all about making yourself number one on your list of those you take care of. Your wants and needs are most important. Hands down!! Selfish? Maybe... Jerky? Who knows... Rude? Probably... Oh, and I'm super guilty of #3 and #5. Working on it!!! Edited May 14, 2014 by mtnbiker3000 Link to post Share on other sites
Natsume21 Posted May 14, 2014 Share Posted May 14, 2014 Oh, I'm actually from a small town in Alabama. like, town of 600. Link to post Share on other sites
Strength in Healing Posted May 14, 2014 Share Posted May 14, 2014 I'm 23. She's 38. Math says that's 15 years. Logic says, enjoy it for the short time it lasts my friend 3 Link to post Share on other sites
flitzanu Posted May 14, 2014 Share Posted May 14, 2014 nothing physical has or will happen for a LONG time with ANYONE I go out with. wait, like, not even high-fives? those are essential. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Natsume21 Posted May 14, 2014 Share Posted May 14, 2014 Logic says, enjoy it for the short time it lasts my friend I'm in my 20s. I don't expect any relationship I have to last a long time. till further notice, it's just really a friends with benefits thing. Problem is, she's REALLY into the sex and I'm not. SHOCKINGLY(not really) My aloofness seems to turn her on even more. Link to post Share on other sites
Natsume21 Posted May 14, 2014 Share Posted May 14, 2014 Number 3. Trivia night guy and restaurant guy are it. I don't think I can handle juggling more than 2 at a time, to be honest. And for everyone's info, nothing physical has or will happen for a LONG time with ANYONE I go out with. Rule no. 11. 75 percent of the time, a woman doesn't date a guy she isn't planning on getting physical. And a "Long time" is very unspecific so I assume that it won't be that long that all. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
johnpatric Posted May 14, 2014 Share Posted May 14, 2014 Hmm well its good for you.. because there is always someone who cares for you without your knowledge.. so enjoy your life.. :) Link to post Share on other sites
Elle1975 Posted May 14, 2014 Share Posted May 14, 2014 3. Try not to talk over a woman. It's annoying. Annoying to anybody really 4. Women are in control. Don't try to argue otherwise. Nop. I actually like a man who's a man, and can be in control. Not to mix up with over controlling and/or abusing. 5. When you say something stupid, never say "I'm sorry" It makes you look weak. Sorry.. but.. yeah, say sorry if you mean it 6. Chocolate is not ALWAYS the answer. YES IT IS! 8. Don't be a nice guy to a woman. Be a respectable, true, and strong person for her. Be nice, and respectable, true, and strong person for her. 9. Not every woman is going to like you. Appreciate the ones that do. True true! Not every guy is going to like a woman either. Link to post Share on other sites
Author KaliLove Posted May 14, 2014 Author Share Posted May 14, 2014 wait, like, not even high-fives? those are essential. O.o what kinds of dates are you going on?? Sure, high fives and hugs are fine. If he can reach...jussayin'... Link to post Share on other sites
Author KaliLove Posted May 14, 2014 Author Share Posted May 14, 2014 (edited) I'm in my 20s. I don't expect any relationship I have to last a long time. till further notice, it's just really a friends with benefits thing. Problem is, she's REALLY into the sex and I'm not. SHOCKINGLY(not really) My aloofness seems to turn her on even more. Rule no. 11. 75 percent of the time, a woman doesn't date a guy she isn't planning on getting physical. And a "Long time" is very unspecific so I assume that it won't be that long that all. Why does long time mean something different for you than it does for me? I'm not a sl*t. PS. I don't like chocolate..so that rule doesn't apply to me either way. Edited May 14, 2014 by KaliLove Link to post Share on other sites
flitzanu Posted May 14, 2014 Share Posted May 14, 2014 O.o what kinds of dates are you going on?? Sure, high fives and hugs are fine. If he can reach...jussayin'... oh yeah, you're 5'9". maybe you should make it a prerequisite. also, sarcasm, i can't tell if you picked up on that, and if i'm picking up on yours. and, i do beg you, don't actually TELL a guy you can't date him because he's short, you're going to break his tiny ego. i'm not short...but guys have told me those stories and i think it causes that whole Napoleon complex thing. women.pshhh. Link to post Share on other sites
Author KaliLove Posted May 14, 2014 Author Share Posted May 14, 2014 It usually is a prerequisite..but this was a little different. Yes, thanks..I did pick up on the sarcasm..and yes, I was throwing it right back at you. Come on..I would NEVER tell a guy he's too short. How tall are you? Link to post Share on other sites
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