MassiveAtom Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 Originally posted by debilou The bottom line, the person who was dumped is crushed. Never to look at life the same way again. THAT'S what I've been trying to say. I'm crushed, and will never look at life the same way again. Deb you're so smart. maybe I can learn to trust again. We'll ALL be okay won't we? Link to post Share on other sites
nicki Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 question for the guys: if women like men who treat women well sometimes and not so well sometimes, what about the flip side? are men more into women who do the same thing, too? by the way, and i hate it, i do agree with you...the trick is that the woman doesn't get too fed up with the guy before he is a prince again.... Link to post Share on other sites
TempSane Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 Originally posted by nicki question for the guys: if women like men who treat women well sometimes and not so well sometimes, what about the flip side? are men more into women who do the same thing, too? by the way, and i hate it, i do agree with you...the trick is that the woman doesn't get too fed up with the guy before he is a prince again.... Yes it goes both ways. If you can identify it and understand that its just a strategy, you can avaoid getting hurt and use it to your advantage. Link to post Share on other sites
MassiveAtom Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 Hey, let's not hijack this thread. Link to post Share on other sites
Author jangle04 Posted February 10, 2005 Author Share Posted February 10, 2005 Hey it's ok to hijack it. It's about helping everyone. I do agree that it can go both ways sometimes. It happened with me. My wife became a female jerk and I still thought she was the best thing ever. I guess I couldn't get over the looks part or something. She was very outgoing, tall, long hair, and killer body. She just gave off this aura and I knew other men wanted her. She was like a Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde though. When she came home the bad side came out and she treated me like dirt most of the time. I didn't want to lose her though because I knew she was the object of many men's desires and I felt a little insecure I guess. I'm a good looking guy but she had the ability to make me feel like I should be very thankful for having her or I should be so lucky. The thing is I stuck by her side when she got fat at one time and through a bunch of other stuff. She started working out constantly, taking better care of herself again and just became this monster to me. That's when I began to suspect things and come to find out I was right. My point is that yes it can go both ways. Even though she did me wrong she can still whip out those vibes and feel like she can have me if she wanted to. She's tried it but I just shun her away now. Link to post Share on other sites
nicki Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 sorry, didn't mean to hijack i was responding to something someone said in this thread...will follow up with a new thread later... Link to post Share on other sites
MassiveAtom Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 Originally posted by jangle04 My point is that yes it can go both ways. Even though she did me wrong she can still whip out those vibes and feel like she can have me if she wanted to. She's tried it but I just shun her away now. you go boy! I'm pretty much certain if my ex asked me back I would have to think about it. for about 3 seconds! BUT, Maybe, just maybe I don't NEED a love in my life. well now THAT's liberating! MA Link to post Share on other sites
Yikes Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 Originally posted by MassiveAtom you go boy! Maybe, just maybe I don't NEED a love in my life. well now THAT's liberating! MA I hear you. For me it's not so much that I don't need a love in my life, because I do. But I KNOW that I can survive and still lead a happy life if that never happens. I don't NEED my EX in my life. - Now THAT's liberating! Link to post Share on other sites
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