NiCoLe20 Posted February 9, 2005 Share Posted February 9, 2005 one or twice out of the week i go with my new guy to this local pub in my town. we go there b/c i see alot of my friends from the same town and to just have a good time. well, most of the time when we go- we have no drama but sometimes he gets a little too drunk and causes problems. i feel like a babysitter when this happens... does anyone ever feel like this? if someone gives him an attitude at the bar or something like that, he will talk back and thats when problems start. i tell him if he keeps acting up i wont bring him w/ me anymore. i just hate being his babysitter... why do people get like this when their drunk? is it the type of liquor they drink? he just starts w/ people for no reason and it gets annoying after a while. i gotta step in between them and pull him over to the side and it ruins my night. so far he's been good lol.. just wondering if anyone else deals with this when their out w/ their man/woman and let us know what you do Link to post Share on other sites
tattoomytoe Posted February 9, 2005 Share Posted February 9, 2005 tell him if he keeps it up you will not go out with him. basically he is a liability to himself, but moreso to you when you are with him. how many drunk chics will want to jump you after your guy bullies up on their men? or tell him, if he gets out of hand you will either leave with out him, take him home, or charge by the hour. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted February 9, 2005 Share Posted February 9, 2005 yes i have been very guilty of this in the past NICOLE20. alcohol tends to lower your tolerance levels and make you do things you normally would think twice about. It is also a truth serum and reveals one's inner personality. I know lots of men like this. After their 3rd or 4th drink you just see a change in their eyes and you can see the insanity starting to come out. I am not a violent person but the times I have gotten out of hand or physically violent or started fights or threatened people it was after i had quite a few. I guess it is a good excuse to act like a dick and get away with it. you can always say you had one too many and blame it on that. Link to post Share on other sites
tattoomytoe Posted February 9, 2005 Share Posted February 9, 2005 Alpha! i could not even fathom YOU as an Angry drunk! my older sis is one of those lovey drunks. Link to post Share on other sites
DinNJ Posted February 9, 2005 Share Posted February 9, 2005 bartender here... not that it matters, but I have seen differences in attitudes based on WHAT people drink. hard liquors... vodkas, whiskey's. TEQUILA!!!.... etc... bring out the worst in people.... over beer. Even have a few regulars who's spouse's say.... "No Vodka or Tequila for him tonight" my 2cents... Link to post Share on other sites
tattoomytoe Posted February 9, 2005 Share Posted February 9, 2005 interesting Din~ Link to post Share on other sites
DinNJ Posted February 9, 2005 Share Posted February 9, 2005 yes, it's a whole different world on the other side of bar. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted February 9, 2005 Share Posted February 9, 2005 Originally posted by DinNJ bartender here... not that it matters, but I have seen differences in attitudes based on WHAT people drink. hard liquors... vodkas, whiskey's. TEQUILA!!!.... etc... bring out the worst in people.... over beer. Even have a few regulars who's spouse's say.... "No Vodka or Tequila for him tonight" my 2cents... yep, the alcohol content is much more concentrated in liquor and hits you quicker and harder and the buzz is much different than the beer buzz. Link to post Share on other sites
Barby Posted February 9, 2005 Share Posted February 9, 2005 My ex husband was a normal person when sober but I SWEAR when he drank (bacardi and usually a 24 pack of bud) you could see the "devil" in his eyes...he would get this dark look, almost far off and empty....like he wasn't himself anymore. As soon as that look came into his eyes, he'd start mumbling things, getting angrier and irrate and then he'd become violent, grab me by the neck, ect. I know how you feel about having to be a babysitter, when he got like this he'd threaten to harm my family, threaten my dog, ect, ect. I'd literally have to have my family lock themselves into their rooms and I'd have to stay awake until he finally passed out, sadly this ended up being an every weekend occurance... Sorry I just wanted to give some history before giving my advice. I'm not sure exactly WHY someone gets like this, my best guess would be that they have chemical embalances in their brain that the alcohol heightens?!?! My advice on what you should do, either let him know that he needs to stop with the embarassing behavior or he's no longer welcome to come out with you, or maybe consider getting out. (I say this based on my history)...if he can be violent to strangers while drunk what's going to stop him from becoming that way with you sometime? Link to post Share on other sites
DinNJ Posted February 9, 2005 Share Posted February 9, 2005 (bacardi and usually a 24 pack of bud) you could see the "devil" in his eyes... surprised his eyes were even open. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted February 9, 2005 Share Posted February 9, 2005 Originally posted by DinNJ surprised his eyes were even open. jesus h khryst man! i woulda been passed out after drinking the whole fifth of bacardi. would not have even gotten to the case of beer! Link to post Share on other sites
Barby Posted February 9, 2005 Share Posted February 9, 2005 Originally posted by DinNJ surprised his eyes were even open. He could drink like a fish, usually he'd drink from like 10am friday-3:30am that same night then pass out and do it all over again the whole weekend...I SWEAR he could drink a huge (jug I think it's a gallon I think?) of straight bacardi in one evening all alone! Link to post Share on other sites
tattoomytoe Posted February 9, 2005 Share Posted February 9, 2005 i know a chic, she is barely 20, like 115 lbs. she drinks cpt. morgan by the handle! the girl has drank more rum in one sitting then i will ever drink in my entire life! it is a death wish! Link to post Share on other sites
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