jbelle6 Posted May 30, 2014 Share Posted May 30, 2014 (edited) Surely you're not old enough to have been making out over 20 years ago ? It was my first boyfriend and first breakup so I was young, I thought I was going to die back then when he broke up with me!!! And the guy was from czech , I met him helping at a Junior Hockey tournament playing for them, we wrote for a couple/few years and then he was drafted to my hometown and then played for Toronto which is when we were together. It was sort of cute because we really kept in touch and that wasn't easy before without the technology we have these past few years. He spoke barely ANY English so even more funny. Edited May 30, 2014 by jbelle6 Link to post Share on other sites
bulldogz Posted May 30, 2014 Share Posted May 30, 2014 Well, to the OP... In reading your story, it sounds like you got some satisfaction from repeatedly rejecting him after he asked to get back together. It's kinda like saying "oh, no" when you get a compliment, because you want it to be reinforced more. Maybe, at some level, you liked the fact he wanted to get back together, and that gave you all the validation you needed. Now, that he is with someone new, you no longer have the validation that you are wanted by him, because perhaps this new woman is more appealing. But anyway, how do you know he wasn't at a Victoria's Secret "meet the models" function, or something? Do you KNOW it was a new girlfriend? I don't know... if you feel you need to reach out to him now or later, then do it. Don't let someone stop you. At the same time, do take some time to think about if you actually want to BE WITH him, or if this is something else. Link to post Share on other sites
jbelle6 Posted May 30, 2014 Share Posted May 30, 2014 Well, to the OP... In reading your story, it sounds like you got some satisfaction from repeatedly rejecting him after he asked to get back together. It's kinda like saying "oh, no" when you get a compliment, because you want it to be reinforced more. Maybe, at some level, you liked the fact he wanted to get back together, and that gave you all the validation you needed. Now, that he is with someone new, you no longer have the validation that you are wanted by him, because perhaps this new woman is more appealing. But anyway, how do you know he wasn't at a Victoria's Secret "meet the models" function, or something? Do you KNOW it was a new girlfriend? I don't know... if you feel you need to reach out to him now or later, then do it. Don't let someone stop you. At the same time, do take some time to think about if you actually want to BE WITH him, or if this is something else. Not answering for OP but maybe the pics were tagged. Link to post Share on other sites
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