My Wife Working Out of State and having affairs

[raj839]

( My English is poor, )

I am 42 year and married. My wife (38) is out of state from last 3.5 years in Bangalore and now in Chennai from last month in IT Company. She outgoing with her one of colleges (who is also married having two kids) after office work and in weekends to search new flat for staying for my wife. They are very close each other. Initially when I was there with my two kids for a week in Hotel and he was also there in opposite to our Room because Company arrange them hotel for a week .That time my wife and he goes every day for breakfast then taking auto to company and again coming together. Even my wife is very familiar with him .she asking in front of me to come seat in our room. That time I told her ,he is complete stranger to you so don't go with him to work, manage yourself. She neglected me. After a week I arranged one PG for my wife (9k per month) there. That PG hostel was not good because there food was not good so both agree to search good 1 or 2 bhk flat and stay with other working girls and prepare yousef and then I come back to my place with my two kids. Kids are leaving with me because I mange there school and everything and also manage my shop which is 7 km away from my home from last 3.5 years.

From my place I have suggested no of flat and given numbers of ladies contact. She contacted also and seen one or two flats she informed me also that’s not so good. Meanwhile she not informed me that her colleges with him. He already book 1 bhk flat in 6 km near to their office. But not bringing family. When I call to my wife she always with him and telling me they are went for searching flat. So I warn her again why you searching with him and in same direction?, Is necessary to go with him every time?.We both use miswords.And after a week she went for outside without informing me and when my kid give call to her I suddenly capture the voice of her colleges so I disappointed again and call her but then she continually rejected my phone. I call her friend ,he told me he was in his room (but road noise was there) then I immediately meet with my wife brother and told him every matter. He call her listen all story then my wife told him she was with her same friend went to search flat. So I disappointed again and call her friend and asked why you are telling lie and why you are not bringing your family so he told me I am married and if you’re not trust on your wife then why you sent her to work here. Next morning in their office he told everything about my and his discussion to my wife. My wife were very anger on me and continually ring phone for shouting me. Then again I disappointed. And that day we never talk to each other.

I don’t know what presently she is doing, she hiding everything of her daily as well as Saturday, Sundays details. My situation is very bad ,I can’t concentrate on my work, my kids their study, my parents.

I don’t know why she is searching flat with him in same direction where he booked a flat for his family and not bringing his family. So I decided not to call her again (never) because she s not need my help and communication. I am not having word to say more because she is giving us monthly amount in that amount I am leaving with my kids, my parents one maid (For kids 10 to 7pm),our home loan. My income is very less and from my income I manage my shop rent ,various bills,vegetables,medicines etc.

Now same again she going with same friends after office work and weekends this time giving another reason to her brother.Her brother is also supporting me and asking her details.

I have checked her billing transaction on her email and with this transaction i am finding the location and type of she purchased using google,but all location goes to same direction where her friends booked flat.

Edited May 21, 2014 by raj839
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[2sunny]

Have you considered formally filing for divorce and requesting the maximum support for her to pay you.

 

Looks like she's cheating, I'm sorry you feel badly - but you may as well have her pay since she essentially broke her vows and abandoned the family.

 

Request money ASAP.

 

When she calls - tell her the cheating earned her the divorce.

[raj839]

( My English is poor, )

I am 42 year and married. My wife (38) is out of state from last 3.5 years in Bangalore and now in Chennai from last month in IT Company. She outgoing with her one of colleges (who is also married having two kids) after office work and in weekends to search new flat for staying for my wife. They are very close each other. Initially when I was there with my two kids for a week in Hotel and he was also there in opposite to our Room because Company arrange them hotel for a week .That time my wife and he goes every day for breakfast then taking auto to company and again coming together. Even my wife is very familiar with him .she asking in front of me to come seat in our room. That time I told her ,he is complete stranger to you so don't go with him to work, manage yourself. She neglected me. After a week I arranged one PG for my wife (9k per month) there. That PG hostel was not good because there food was not good so both agree to search good 1 or 2 bhk flat and stay with other working girls and prepare yousef and then I come back to my place with my two kids. Kids are leaving with me because I mange there school and everything and also manage my shop which is 7 km away from my home from last 3.5 years.

From my place I have suggested no of flat and given numbers of ladies contact. She contacted also and seen one or two flats she informed me also that’s not so good. Meanwhile she not informed me that her colleges with him. He already book 1 bhk flat in 6 km near to their office. But not bringing family. When I call to my wife she always with him and telling me they are went for searching flat. So I warn her again why you searching with him and in same direction?, Is necessary to go with him every time?.We both use miswords.And after a week she went for outside without informing me and when my kid give call to her I suddenly capture the voice of her colleges so I disappointed again and call her but then she continually rejected my phone. I call her friend ,he told me he was in his room (but road noise was there) then I immediately meet with my wife brother and told him every matter. He call her listen all story then my wife told him she was with her same friend went to search flat. So I disappointed again and call her friend and asked why you are telling lie and why you are not bringing your family so he told me I am married and if you’re not trust on your wife then why you sent her to work here. Next morning in their office he told everything about my and his discussion to my wife. My wife were very anger on me and continually ring phone for shouting me. Then again I disappointed. And that day we never talk to each other.

I don’t know what presently she is doing, she hiding everything of her daily as well as Saturday, Sundays details. My situation is very bad ,I can’t concentrate on my work, my kids their study, my parents.

I don’t know why she is searching flat with him in same direction where he booked a flat for his family and not bringing his family. So I decided not to call her again (never) because she s not need my help and communication. I am not having word to say more because she is giving us monthly amount in that amount I am leaving with my kids, my parents one maid (For kids 10 to 7pm),our home loan. My income is very less and from my income I manage my shop rent ,various bills,vegetables,medicines etc.

Now same again she going with same friends after office work and weekends this time giving another reason to her brother.Her brother is also supporting me and asking her details.

I have checked her billing transaction on her email and with this transaction i am finding the location and type of she purchased using google,but all location goes to same direction where her friends booked flat.

 

Hi Sunny You are right, but I am in very critical condition,I will tell you again

on 24/5/2014 Friday ,I call her at 5.10 pm after Office over,but she told me she will do extra work upto 7 because she came late in the morning.At 7.20pm

I call her ,she told me she will coming by bus after reaching she will give me call ,I call her at 7.45pm, then her phone was switch off still 8.50pm. I call at hostel Lady Manager she told me she not yet come here.At 8.50pm she call me and told she reached hostel.I again call Hostel Lady manager she told again she was not there. I call my wife again at 9.10pm but again phone switch off. So I told Hostel Lady Manager please check. At last Lady Manager told me she came here at 11.15pm.I tried to call my wife at 12.pm then she was speaking to some one, when I call her again she told she was here from 8.00pm.She shouted on me you are very low thinking man, I don't have time for such discussion with you,you from poor environment,if want to discuss this then call me.

[No Limit]

Okay, she's definitely cheating. Let her go, you don't deserve her.